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Moms: Would you accept your son being gay?
11-09-2012, 08:26 AM
Post: #1
Moms: Would you accept your son being gay?
I'm a guy that just graduated high school. Their was a lot of likes and comments that were good. When I go to my local football game. Some of my high school friends that are still in high school saw it and ask me if it was a hack and if i was gay. I told them it was a hack and they were glad that I'm not gay. I am not sure if I did the right thing. I came out by this status
" I have something important to say. I'm gay. I am what I am and it's time to stop hiding it.
I am still the same person I was before. I know that many people will not recognize this, and I will
probably lose many friends. Many of you will say, "I knew it!" on the subject of my being homosexual. But those claims were made with no legitimate proof, and coincedentally I really was gay. But now it's time you should all know-- for real. I do not find every male I see attractive, so don't flatter yourselves.If you don't like me for being gay, or if it has made me lose your respect, please delete me from your friends list. I don't need to deal with hateful people like you. Bye and thanks, everyone."
I had a friend that told one of my friends about the status and i wasn't aware of it. The told friend asked me why I have two facebooks and I said it was my coming out account. She said that she knew because of her friend. Will the word spread that quickly? The only problem now that is remaining that my parents dont know that I'm gay yet. I would keep it a secret but if I have to. I would tell my mom about it but I dont want her to tell my dad. How could I bring it up to her in the house without my other family members hearing it? Can I talk to her face to face about it or could I bring it up with a text message or a note? Is it possible to tell another adult about this like a church staff member. I e mailed a woman who worked their 2 months ago and told he i want to tell her something private and she says that i could talk to her about anything or one of the church people. Its been two months without telling her, but now I want to tell her. I dont want to tell my mom without being prepared about it. i am ashamed by it a bit.
I dont know any gay guys, I am the only gay in the family, I will loose a couple of friends, and I heard stories that the parents throw out their gay / lesbians sons and daughters. I am not ashamed by that but afraid of the future. I have a crush on a guy during the last semester. I friended him on facebook and said whats up and responded " not much" Only that. It was some random guy I saw in my lunch period. He is one grade lower than me and he's black athlete that played football this year. I think he also played basketball also. I had some weird situation when he came into the place where I was working at and he played some basketball in there. Yeah I think i still like him, but it wont work out.

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11-09-2012, 08:34 AM
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Don't be ashamed of who you are. Its a very brave thing to do, telling your parents. Im 17 but if I were a parent I would be very happy that you told me. There is nothing wrong with being gay and anyone who says that there is something wrong with being gay should go to hell.

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11-09-2012, 08:34 AM
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Of course! A label has nothing to do with love. If I loved my son to death before he told me he was gay, then I would still love my son to death even more after he told me he was gay becaues I would be so proud of him for being strong and asking for support. This goes for a daughter as well!
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11-09-2012, 08:34 AM
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I'm not a mom but my mom accepts me.
So yours should, if she loves you.
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11-09-2012, 08:34 AM
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Who ever says if your Lesbian/Gay Or whatever You will go to hell they are stupid and you won't. Im not a mom but I am a lesbian.And If You Mom Loved You She would Love You No Mater What.Being Gay Is Okay And There Is Nothing Wrong with it.Love Is Love And Also Love Has No Gender Just Remember that.
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