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My friend decided to re-arrange our plans the minute she knew I wasn't available. Am I overreacting?
06-11-2014, 10:16 PM
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My friend decided to re-arrange our plans the minute she knew I wasn't available. Am I overreacting?
There are 4 of us girls, all in our late 20s. It's hard to get us all together these days but we hang out once a month or so. We all agreed to have dinner on Wednesday so we were all looking forward to it. Our plan was to go to this one restaurant that is my favorite but everyone likes.

On Monday, I mention that I picked up some bbq for dinner and my friend, let's call her Ann, says how good that sounds. She then announces in a group Facebook conversation to the other girls that she is hungry and wants to go to the restaurant we were planning on for Wednesday. She invites the other 2 girls in our group to join her. When one of them asks if I'm coming, Ann says that I've just picked up dinner so I'm probably not going.

So now I'm upset. They went to dinner at my favorite restaurant without me on a Monday. I protested saying we were going there on Wednesday and they were like "Oh we can go then too!" but naturally Wednesday rolled around and everyone is busy again.

I'm really mad at Ann now. It seems like she deliberately changed our plans so that I couldn't go. She's competitive with me in general and this just made me so angry, I haven't spoken to her since. Am I overreacting or reading into this too much? This just doesn't seem like something a so called friend would do. What should I do? I feel like confronting her is just going to make her angry and defensive.

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06-11-2014, 10:31 PM
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I think you have the right to be angry. She made an assumption that you weren't available and she should have asked you first. Talk to her about it.

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06-11-2014, 10:46 PM
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Sounds a little annoying, but I would say just let it go. It's not really worth the stress.
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