I guess it was just a dream?

[792]

I took this beautiful girl (who goes to my college) on a few dates a month ago who was my crush in last semester and I was extremely happy since I finally had the balls to ask her out. Everything went really well (she said she liked me and we made out) except I mentioned "love at first sight" on fb chat which made her feel uncomfortable.

2 days later after our dates,she told me she wasn't looking for a relationship and wanted to stay friends. I was really upset but then she messaged me that night kept saying she was sorry and starting to flirt with me again.

We hung out a few times after that (we'd still kissed) and finally one day at school, I saw her walking passed by and I kept calling her name however she pretended I didn't exit and kept on walking. I was really pissed and frustrated so I asked her for the reason on fb. She replied "You make me uncomfortable ever since you said the "love at first sight" thing. Really freaked me out tbh". I was stunned. I treated her so damn well and she just used the same old bs from 3 weeks ago to tell me to fk off? I was just so heart broken!

After that, i got myself drunk for the next two days (bad decision I know, I'm not really a drinker anyway) and I just kept trying to get her out of my head but nothing worked. What do you guys think I should do? I just can't take this anymore. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

P.S. We haven't talked for more than a month but still see each other in the library.

[sallyhaha]

Tell her you understand an just want to be friends. Give NO hints that you still like her. If you treat a girl right. If she's smart she will eventually come along. Let her be. Women are emotional and need time to think because she is scared.

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[Ellie]

It sounds like she tried to be honest with you but got confused by the things you said. Most people don't believe in love at first sight and so you came on very strong. Just try to move on, there is a girl out there that believes the way you do and you'll find her. Just hang in there.

[NennyBenny]

It would freak me out if someone told me they loved me as soon as they saw me. I believe in love at first sight but it seems to work only if its a two way thing. She seems pretty freaked and you should just give her some space. If you are diligent and respect her choices then she may come back to you.