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Please give me your best advice on this situation!!?
06-14-2014, 01:10 AM
Post: #1
Please give me your best advice on this situation!!?
Hello. A couple days ago i dm'd on twitter a person who has a lot of mutual friends with me but we aren't really friends. So we had a good conversation and then i had to go so i gave her my phone number and said she should text me some time. Well 4 hours later she texted me and we texted until about 2am.

I know it's early, but does it seem like she's already minorly interested in me? And if you think so, should i text her now and start trying to talk to her more?

Lastly, when would be an appropriate time to see if she wants to hang out or go on a date?

Let me know!! Thanks

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06-14-2014, 01:24 AM
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Talk to her a lot and become her good friend. After about a month if she really seems interested in you ask her on a date. I know it may seem like a while but patience is ether then getting rejected. Good luck!

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06-14-2014, 01:37 AM
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Yes she does. Girls talk if they're interested. They dont if they're not. Yes you should txt her. Ask when she's free and if you'd want to hang out. What you do is on you. movies. your place. drinking.....etc. just have a couple ideas ready when she asks "What did you want to do?" Dont be pervy.
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06-14-2014, 01:49 AM
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Okay.

1) the guy above called Zack..or the first answer wtv: DO NOT BECOME HER FRIEND

2) Yes she is interested.

Like someone said, if she's talking then she is interested. It seems like you're hitting it off with her so thats a start. Now at this point you have 2 paths.

1. Become friends
In this case, you'll ask her about her problems and so forth. In which case, you'll be her confidant. Not bad, but if you want her, you can't take the turtle approach. But this would yield dividends 2 years from now, if you want to wait

2. Ask her out
I don't mean on a date. Simply, try hanging out in person more often. From experience, 1 or 2 good outings with her is enough. Girls decide from the getco what they can get out of a guy. You still have time because she's really talking to you. So in 1 of these 2 outings you need to be alone with her. Just so you guys hit it off. Make it like a date without calling it a date. In other words, act like a bf, hod hands, flirt, be close and all that. This can be either the first or the second outing. In the other one, try to get some of her gfs or your mutual friends. Preferrably more girls, and less guys (so you're the only option). Her gfs will like you and if you have thieir approval, you have the girl.

It should take about 2.5 weeks at most. You want to hit it off with her, get close (physically). You get emotionally close with her friends. By that time you should be close enough for it to feel like a relationship, and all thats left is to ask her out.

Good Luck bud Smile
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