Why does my ex think I'm a terrible person?

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I was with him for almost 2 years. We practically lived together, and when he voluntarily left his job, he fell behind on payments. I paid all of his rent, his truck payment, and his phone bill, etc. He lost the apartment (more than one) and his truck because I couldn't keep handing him money even though I lost over 4 grand at that point. I'd always be there for him, I did everything for him. And even after he started working, I was still driving everywhere and paying for everything. I found out during the time I was paying for his things, he was talking to tons of girls on Facebook and asked to meet up with some for sex.

Yes, I was pissed and told people he took my money and cheated on me. But that's what happened. Maybe it wasn't right to talk about him, but he caused it. He blames me for our relationship failing, even though I never hated him for what he did because I know he's not perfect. I stuck with him trying to work it out, and he'd still get mad at me for every little thing. He won't even pay me back because he blames me for making his PTSD "worse" and since he was on the phone with me during work one day, he got suspended "because of me" since he wasn't allowed to be on it.

No matter what people tell me (people that know him say that's just how he is) I feel like I failed hardcore as a girlfriend. Why wasn't I good enough when I did so much for him and stayed for SO LONG? He's 28 and I'm 22 and he told me he never wants to be with me again.

[Alex]

cause thats what ex is supposed to think.

please answer mine?
https://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/in...726AAH50C9

[Battle Cat]

Exes that treat their exes like garbage, simply take no responsibility for a relationship that was terrible.
I was with my second/last girlfriend for almost 8 months (not as long as yours I know) and she dumped me through text messages.
Despite telling me that I was her most mature/sweetest boyfriend, she never told me that she loved me.
She would tell me, "I like you."
The lame excuse she gave me when she dumped me through text messages was, "We're different."
While I was her boyfriend, she made cruel jokes about me, criticized everything about me from how I dress to the things I like and got mad at me often.
She would forget simple things about me like my last name.
She secretly stayed in touch with her ex boyfriend before me even though she told me about him and he was a jerk to her.
She also secretly went on a personals site that she had a profile on to find another boyfriend and would save instant message conversations with guys on her laptop.
She kept me a secret from her family and didn't want me to meet them except at her brother's wedding because she didn't want to be the only person there without a date.
She dumped me months before her brother's wedding.
She went on a dinner date with a male coworker and then told me about it, just to see if I would get mad or not.
Pretty much everything about me was a problem to her.
I got in touch with her for a while like 3 years ago just to see how she's doing.
Talking to her again was "fine" until she gave me attitude all because I asked her, "So, what's with you?"
She instantly thought I meant, "What do you mean? What is my problem?"
After getting mad at her for giving me attitude, I learned that she wasn't sorry at all for mistreating me.
She was older than me when she dumped me as she was 30 years old and I was 23.
I felt sorry for her once when I was her boyfriend when she cried in front of me telling me that if she wanted to have kids someday, then she would have to be with another guy.
Looking back, she was just a miserable person.
In my situation, I was a fool to stay with her as long as I did.
I was her only ex boyfriend that she didn't care to be "friends" with.
She really did not care if she ever talked to me or saw me in person again.
In your situation, you shouldn't blame yourself for your relationship being toxic with your ex boyfriend.
You didn't seem to do anything wrong to him.
It might be best to not ever talk to your ex boyfriend again or see how he's doing since he doesn't care about you at all.
I hope that I've helped answer your question. ~ Alan