Ladies please give me your honest opinion. I will answer anyone who answers my question. Thanks?

[565]

I tried to flirt with this girl on FB. She didn't seem interested so I asked her about the activist organization she is in. It worked I got her number and her attention.

We met up for coffee and she had got me to really commit to starting a chapter at my school but I texted her yesterday and told her a new job came up and that I wasn't able to fully commit right now and that I was sorry to flake. She was really understanding and told me to come to a film night her school is doing this week. She also suggested we talk more about it once i settled into my job.

I haven't hit on her and our conversations have not steered toward an interest in her. But the fact is I know she remembers I was kinda flirty with my first emails to her a few months back.

The one thing we have really connected on besides her volunteer work is music. She and I like some of the same artist. And a few days ago I noticed she had listened to the same album i was. (we both use the Spotify app)

I really want to send her a playlist and be like "I noticed we share taste in music and wanted to share some stuff with you, you may not have heard."

Ladies what would you think of this? I don't want to come off as creepy and I know that in person is always better. Should I wait till I see her on Wednesday?

[Georgia]

yes cause u dont ant her to think your desprite

[ZombiesRus]

You may end up having a really good friendship growing or it could still turn into something more romantic.
Music is a fantastic way to connect with someone. All you need is an opening, even if that is you asking her what type of music she likes (even though you know it's the same stuff you like).
Then you could say something like "Oh my god, I love them/him/her, have you heard of ______ they are similar. You will love them, then you can show her a couple of your favourite songs. Doing this is person can seen like it's more on the spot and not something you thought about.
I doubt she would have forgot about her flirting with her, but now that you aren't doing it, she might think you are an awesome guy and maybe she missed out and will chase you up or give you signs. Good luck

[Carol]

Ask her out

[Bayley]

I think that's a good idea but I wouldn't quite word the message like that, it sounds a little to professional

[Ashely w]

Go for it! send her a playlist. I think that is really cool, and no..not creepy at all