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What should I do with my ex?
06-15-2014, 09:37 AM
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What should I do with my ex?
Me and my ex broke up 7 months ago cause she wanted to go back to her ex boyfriend and I was ruined for few weeks but eventually I moved on and I went out with other girls as well.

Thing is I still haven't forget her.. I thought that after we made it all clear and I got the whole picture and the real reason we're breaking up that I'd be done with her and it'd be easier to move on but it doesn't seem this way..

I hadn't spoken to her neither seen her for 7 god damn months and yesterday she sees me with a friend of mine and waves at me and I was like seeing a ghost. She catched my eye,smiled and waved and I waved back and she didn't let go the eye contact until she walked away.

To me it didn't seem friendly, I don't know I felt as if she was happy to see me and I want to talk to her so badly but I'm afraid she's still in relationship and I'd look stupid.I don't dare to ask her friends cause they will tell her. I can't talk to her in chat either cause I've deleted her from facebook. Perhaps I should add her? Would that look friendly?

I don't know what the hell to do without looking desperate.

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06-15-2014, 09:42 AM
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kill the bitch, bitches love being killed Tongue

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06-15-2014, 09:48 AM
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If you want to be around her more, then just get to know some of her friends and hang around them. Eventually you will see her more often. Don't be desperate. As a matter of fact, act uninterested. She'll eventually be to one to approach you. I wouldn't suggest going back though. She left you, end of story.
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06-15-2014, 09:52 AM
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She broke up with you to be with her ex? Honestly I'd say try to move on and don't try contacting her again because if she liked you she wouldn't have gone back to her ex who she still has feelings for. If she wanted to talk to you again she would find a way to make contact with you. So why waste your time on someone who probably doesn't think of you? Love, I'd say there are plenty girls who would love a nice guy like you seem to be..dont lose hope
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06-15-2014, 10:01 AM
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definitely add her on facebook, maybe leave her a message saying something like..'it was nice to see you again/ how are you' etc

if she means that much to you you shouldn't let her go.
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06-15-2014, 10:09 AM
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intead of writting an essay here come do mine? jk..
ASK HER TALK TO HER. "COMMUNICATE"
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06-15-2014, 10:17 AM
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If your really feeling desperate about the whole situation, you should write her on facebook, text or twitter(DM) and say " Hey, it was good seeing you the other day, how have you been" and see where it goes from there, if the conversation is going well, you can ask her more personal things like, so how's your love life going, are you happy? etc.

But if she doesn't reply soon, or she's just a bitch, then it's on to the next one, trust me, if they don't even bother to make an effort back, then she's not worth your time of day.

I strongly believe everything happens for a reason, so if it doesn't work out, trust me, it's for the best.

You seem like a nice guy ... honestly, if you want to get back at her for what she has done in a nice way, go to the gym, take care of your body, get a nice hair cut, go shopping for yourself and just DO YOU, believe me, she'll be out of your mind, and she will most likely be up your ass trying to get back with you but by that time, you'll have found a better girl than her, and it's going to work out on your end :-)
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06-15-2014, 10:32 AM
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Just tell her how you feel, you will be the better person for wanting to make the relationship work again. From what I'm hearing is she gave you steady eye contact, that's a dead give-away that she still has fealings for you too.
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