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Dangerous ex possibly contacting me? please help?
06-15-2014, 05:46 PM
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Dangerous ex possibly contacting me? please help?
I have one ex, and he is nuts. The relationship was volatile, he was extremely abusive & due to possessiveness would imprison me in a cupboard in his basement. I fell hard for my current fiance and left my ex for him. My ex got a new girlfriend and started harassing her on social networks using fake profiles claiming to be me, he even called me threatening me to leave his gf alone. The girl found out it was him and he left me alone after that. Or so I thought.
He would call and make threats to come hurt/kill me using my current address, then it stopped after a while.

On Facebook there is a guy who persistently contacts me, speaking as if we've known each other for a while. I have no idea who it is, but just by his style of writing and prying questions I feel he may be my ex. After investigating his profile I cant tell if it's a real or fake profile. My ex (who previously had blocked me) is friends with this person, he tags him in statuses/videos, claims they train together and things of that sort, but it all seems fake and suspicious.

Its been 3 years since we broke up, im engaged with an infant and I'd hate to think my "baggage" would come back and hurt my family.Do you think my ex is possibly trying to keep tabs or is planning something?

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06-15-2014, 05:48 PM
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This guy is beyond messed up and not cool either! He locked you in a cupboard in his basement - that's extremely insane!

It doesn't sound like he is after you but really in this situation you can't be sure. It sounds like he's just stalking you and keeping tabs as you say but still, I would cut off all contact with this random new guy on Facebook - it sounds fishy!

He made threats to kill you before, so just stay away (and from random profiles that seem linked to him) and make sure your new man is doing enough exercise! (lol to that last part)

Wish you the best, I'm sure it's just some BS.

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06-15-2014, 05:59 PM
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The first thing you need to do is change your Facebook settings to private so he cannot see your page. You then need to go through your Friends list and defriend anyone you do not personally know or don't talk to regularly
Stalkers can come back at any time. I don't want to scare you but a friend's sister was killed by an ex-boyfriend she had broken up with 5 years earlier but he never got over being obsessed with her. He shot her on her front doorstep in front of her child
Make sure he has no way to contact you or even see your pictures online -that can trigger his obsession.
Never respond to any strangers who contact you on Facebook - block them immediately. You don't want him to see your posts, your photos or anything else.
If he persists, talk to a lawyer about getting a restraining order.
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