why is this man scared of me?

[548]

We met on a bdsm p0rn site (dont judge!) and I managed to find him on fb, when I added and messaged him he ignored me. When I added his friends I was able to see lots of photos of him they uploaded, he gets scared and sets his profile to private and even deletes his profile picture. Hes married with kids but we never done anything! So why so scared of me??????

[Anime Girl]

Isn't it obvious that he doesn't want to talk to you? He won't want his wife or family finding out that he met you on a p0rn site. Also it's a little stalkerish that you added his friends on Facebook. Just leave the guy alone!

[C]

Umm he's scared because you're stalking him?

He's on a site to trade porn, and you dig around and find out who he is. He doesn't want to meet you, and obviously he doesn't want to upset the wife and kids with his interests. He is probably somewhat limited in social skills which would be why he prefers porn to actually interacting physically with his wife.

[2fast4u]

He is scared of you because you are scary!

Hopefully you have done his family a favour and scared him away from p*rn sites. He should be spending more time with his family.

[BabeHart]

When you put your personal business online for others to see/read, then you open yourself to be judged...

If the guy didn't invite you to friend him on Fb, then leave him alone...if he wanted to communicate with you ANYPLACE other than the BDSM porn site where you met, then he'd have given you the information to do so...not giving you that info should make it clear to you that he doesn't desire you to stalk him on the internet (or offline)...after all, he's married and you have no idea how much his wife knows about his fetish life...