Is he cheating on me?

[060]

So I'm 15 years old and my bf always erases his text messages, emails, and fb messages. I think he's hiding something. Do you think it means he's cheating on me????

[Shania]

I think that he's either very secretive or cheating.

[me]

You should better talk to him. Every relation depends on mutual believe.

[Asus]

It's always possible you (or anyone) are being cheated on.

So why are you snooping through his stuff in the first place?.... may I ask!! -.-

[JL]

It doesn't matter. If he doesn't want to share his life with you, he's not the right person for you.

[Ana Banana]

Well, it does sound like he might have another relationship. A lot of other factors might add up to it as well. For example, has he ever introduced you to his parents? Have you met any of his friends or siblings? Does he take you on dates? Is he always hiding from the public when he sees you? Does he see you for brief encounters or does he spend a lot of time with you? Does he talk to you at night or does he tell you not to call him? All this factors could mean you are the person he is cheating with. Be careful and yes...talk to him. My suggestion would be that if the relationship doesn't feel good...then move on. He should be proud of displaying you as his girl. If he deletes you...something is going on.

[Sue C]

Honey, why don't you come rite out & ask him WHY he's doing these things. Let him know people like that who"hide"things usually have a reason for doing it,it has you up set & worried he's purpously keeping you from knowing what he's doing & it's starting to scare you & you can't help it. Come rite out & ask him what are his reasons, is he cotactingsome one you would get really upset IF you knew who it wasl. Look straight into his eyes when you ask him this "body" language will give him away after you've asked him that IF he's not telling the truth. Get it out in the open once & for all...the best to you, honey...

[Steph]

I have been in your position so many times it is hard but acting all crazy could scare him off if he's not doing anything. Keeping it all in going round and round in your head will end up making you go mad ! people will disagree but I feel gut instinct is always right you do need to ask him outright judge it by his first reaction if he gets all angry and defensive and turns it round on you in my experience he probably is if he isn't he will have a reasonable explanation . All I will say after years of experience if he is they never change be strong and good luck .