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My cousin gave no explanation...help?
06-16-2014, 06:53 PM
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My cousin gave no explanation...help?
My cousin and I are 10 years apart (I'm 23, he'll be 33 next month), but we've always been pretty close. There are quite a few pics of us hanging out when I was just a baby and he was a kid. My family and I spent the summer of 1999, 2002 and 2004 visiting his family and I adored him as if he was my more awesome big brother or something. Well, his mom and my mom are sisters and they've never gotten along really. It's gotten worse the past few years. She was being very rude and b*tchy towards my mom so I sent her a long email cussing her out. She never replied, so I'm not sure if she got it. My cousin blocked me on Facebook and eventually unblocked me. His excuse was that things were getting tense and he wanted to stay away from all the drama. He apologized and said he shouldn't have done that. That was about 2 years ago.

Fast forward to last week or so and he posted a picture of him and his fiancé. I commented and said it was cute. He deleted my pic comment, but messaged me saying "thanks". I was trying to catch up, but he was being short with me. He finally started opening up a little and then got all nosy, asking me about my family and our living situation and basically wanting to dissect my life. I was drunk so instead of flipping out on him, I left the message as unread and then "read" it the next day. I didn't reply and 3 days later, he sent me a message asking "where'd you go the other night?" I left it unread and still continued to post statuses on FB. At some point, I noticed I couldn't find his page so I went to the message and it said I couldn't reply anymore. I copied his URL and went on an alternative FB and found his profile, but when I tried it from mine, it didn't show up. He blocked me without an explanation. I don't know why he thought I was straight out ignoring him when it was obvious the message hadn't been read. Not only that, but I've obviously been very busy lately and I couldn't be bothered to reply right then.

What do I do? My mom emailed my uncle and told him that my cousin blocked me and that it hurt me because it really did, but he hasn't replied.
jl-No I didn't. I didn't say sh*t to him. He asked me questions that I didn't feel like answering at the time and he took it personal and ditched.

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06-16-2014, 06:54 PM
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He didn't want the drama. Then you opened up to him and brought the drama right back to him.

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06-16-2014, 07:08 PM
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just let it be for a little bit and let all the drama and crap going on die down a little bit.
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06-16-2014, 07:24 PM
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