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feeling kind of jealous? should i make a big deal out of a FB account?
06-16-2014, 07:40 PM
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feeling kind of jealous? should i make a big deal out of a FB account?
well, we have been together for 3years, he moved to Italy six months ago and i'm moving there with him when we get married but i want to get a master's degree first.
even though we live in two different continents we managed to keep our relationship very strong. He calls me at least 6 time every day and we talk all the time via msn.
He tells every time he calls how much he loves me and that he can't wait to get married. He even calls me when he sees a cute baby and starts telling me about and how much he wants to build a family with me. He buys me a lot of clothes and stuffs and he even sends me a lot of money every month (which is equivalent to a salary and saying the money and i'm going to use as a deposit for a house or something like that). he is paying for my visit to Italy (hopefully in june). He doesn't drink or smoke and he hates stuff like clubbing and partying.
I love him with all my heart and even more since he's gone.
The problem:
i don't have a FB account coz i hate it. My fiancé has one and he has a lot of friends (300) and a lot of them are girls . He told me about it and said that he is using it mainly to get in touch with other bands and to expand his clothing line ( he just started it).
should i make a big deal out of it ?? i don't know, i can't stand looking to those girls??
BTW i'm 22 and he is 28
ooops just noticed some missing words.
and i mean i'm saving the money not " and saying the money".
sorry

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06-16-2014, 07:43 PM
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no you shouldn't make a big deal out of it. he seems like he really and truely loves you. i don't think he would mess up such a good thing. tell him it bothers you so it will keep your relationship open and honest. & congrats on you getting married and stuff i hope you guys have a long and happy life together.

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06-16-2014, 07:46 PM
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This shouldn't be a big deal. He is just networking. Don't be overly protective because this could push him away. If you see alot of girls writing on his wall maybe you should be a little bit concerned. My boyfriend is a LB at UConn and he takes some pictures with girls but I can't really get mad because I have guy friends and I take pictures with them.
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06-16-2014, 07:47 PM
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you really shouldn't make a big deal about it, you trust him, so you shouldn't doubt that he has facebook for "all these girls". If he calls you all the time like you claim, then he truly loves you.
and you shouldn't doubt him when he says he uses it to get in touch with other bands and promote his clothing line. If you love him as much as you say, you should trust him. and make a facebook account if it bothers you so much.
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06-16-2014, 07:53 PM
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noooo i mean theyre just firends. i have mostly guy friends on my fb and i have a boyfriend. he has alot of girls on his fb too..but its annoying how much he talks with them. its sooooo annoying
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06-16-2014, 08:02 PM
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I think you might be making too big a deal out of it. Facebook is a great networking tool, and a lot of people use it for that purpose, not to hook up with or keep in touch with people of the opposite sex. He hasn't hidden the fact that he has a Facebook page (which would be a sign that maybe you should worry he's using it for reasons other than the ones he's giving you), and he seems to be absolutely devoted to you, so it doesnt seem like you'd have any valid reason to worry about the FB page.

You may hate using it, but if it bothers you this much, get on there and have only a few "friends", including him. Not only would you be able to keep in touch with him that way as well, but you'd be showing support for his creative endeavors.

Just a little side note: If he's using it to expand a clothes line, doesn't it just make sense that the majority of his "friends" would be female?
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