Is it ok for bf to have fb but not me I feel this is unequal not fair?

[160]

My bf n I deactivated our fb accounts cause he said fb cause too much drama on my side so we both deactivated them for a long while like 6months+ now he recently got his fb back but said I'm not allowed to get mines back I asked him to delete all females friends from his list he hesitated but did delete them the problem is this I have cut off all contact from friends text messages chats fb ps3 everything but he hasn't he's not allowed to talk to girls but I'm not allowed to talk to anybody is this fair I feel so isolated n confined .we've been together for 9 months now n idk if I can take this any longer I only have him n I think I did a big mistake by cutting off all contacts so do u think this is fair him having fb n all his friends but me only having him I moved states so I have no family here n few friends I had are no longer on contact should I continue or ask him I need to socialize n interact with ppl aswell idk if this makes any sense to u guys
thnx everyone

[Manuel]

No problem..but don't believe all opinions on facebook

[Eric]

You are both being immature, and honestly I can tell both of you are insecure. Perhaps you should break up with him, and allow yourself some time to become self reliant and happy on your own? When there is that much control in a relationship, it will NOT last unless it is forced. Break it off, and find inner happiness.

[Greg]

I hate FB and will not join it but... get away from this guy. Not only is he a control freak, but he sounds like a potential player.

Controlling guys are also the most likely to be abusive... physically and verbally. He might not be yet, but control freaks usually grow into it.

[Veronica]

WOW! For gods sake girl pick yourself up and get the hell away from this guy! Like, NOW!

NEVER i repeat NEVER give up friends and especially family for a guy.

The fact that he is telling you what to do, who to talk and not talk to etc is BAD.

DO NOT ask him permission for anything. TELL him, that this is NO way to live, and you have the right to have a facebook, friends, and a life!

If you think that he will get angry or upset try to do it in a public place.

Good luck removing the chains xxx

[The]

If you are a young girl under 18 its most likely because he is immature and cant handle a relationship without being jealous, maybe he is flirting with other girls and doesn't want you to see.

[Michael]

Sounds like your headed into an abusive relationship. Cutting females off from their social contacts and isolating them is one of the first steps to abuse. Remember the abuser doesn't see their actions as abuse, they often see it as love. In a healthy relationship there are always boundaries, cutting you off from your friends and support is not fair.

You need to set your boundaries now, having a FB account is perfectly reasonable for any human being. Demand you be allowed to conduct your life the way you want to. If he does not agree then leave the relationship. Seriously if he is willing to ending the relationship because you have a FB account he's not worth it.

FB does create drama, it's a problem, it sucks. But a healthy relationship deals with problems as they arise. Compared to raising children together, FB and all it's drama is a bump in the road if you can't deal with that together it's not a serious relationship you should be in.