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What should I do?
06-17-2014, 09:59 AM
Post: #1
What should I do?
I'm a girl, 16, my boyfriend is 17. We're in a long distance relationship (100 miles) and have been dating for 3 months. In the beginning of our relationship, he cheated on me and I found out through his Twitter where he had been talking to the girl. He begged me for a second chance and promised not to do it again so I gave him another chance. Ever since then, I've had a hard time trusting him. I occasionally go on google and search for his usernames that he uses to see if he's made any accounts anywhere to talk to girls or anything.

Two nights ago I searched his username and the first thing it brought me to was a Snapchat forum. I checked it out and apparently a few weeks ago, he was asking other girls for nude snapchats and pics and to talk on Kik on this website.
I confronted him about it and he said it was his account, but he told me that his friend Mason unknowingly made the account for him and posted for him, and that my boyfriend didn't even know the login information. (He had told Mason that he thought we might break up soon because we were fighting a lot, so Mason made the account to "help my boyfriend get over me" and gave out my boyfriend's kik and snapchat usernames.) Mason finally told him after a week and my boyfriend told him to stop. Apparently Mason did stop posting, but the account is still there online, and he didn't delete the account.

I don't believe that story for one second. My reason is because when my boyfriend cheated on me and I saw the tweets, he told me that he had "given his Twitter to his friend Zack, but Zack hadn't changed the information and settings yet, and that was Zack's girlfriend." That is the most see-through lie ever, because I know that no one would do that and if Zack wanted to talk to his girlfriend he could just make his own account. In the end, my boyfriend told me that yes, he cheated on me, after I threatened to kill myself. The reason why I don't believe this new story about Mason and the Snapchat website is because my boyfriend blamed Zack for the Twitter and cheating thing and this story about this incident with Snapchat is too similar.

I've threatened to break up with my boyfriend, as well as kill myself, and he still has stuck with his story about Mason making the account and posting for him. I still can't believe him or trust him. Another reason why I can't believe him is because I looked at some of the posts where he was asking for nudes and snapchat usernames, and the post sounds exactly like how my boyfriend talks/types.

My boyfriend told me that he would take a video of Mason saying it was him who made the account and posted everything, but I'm not gonna believe that either because my boyfriend could easily just tell Mason what to say before he records the video.

It also doesn't help that pathological lying runs in my boyfriend's family. I'm thinking that my boyfriend is just lying to me about the Snapchat stuff to keep me from breaking up with him, and in reality he was really the one who did it, not Mason.

So what should I do? Should I break up with him? Should I stay with him? Is there any way I can figure out whether or not he is telling the truth? Should I trust him still? How do I figure out if my boyfriend is lying about this stuff? Is there any way I can get him to tell the truth if he IS lying? Is there a way I can trick him or manipulate him into telling the truth?

I'm open to all answers and advice... I'm completely heartbroken and don't know what to do about this situation. Please help me. :'(

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06-17-2014, 10:11 AM
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Okay right off the bat he cheated, A)long distance it is very easy to cheat B) if you have no trust in a relationship even more important in a long distance. I don&#x27;t think he is all that worth it tell him i can not love someone i can not trust or somewhere along the lines and if begs you to get back DO NOT do

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