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BONOBO · 11-09-2012, 08:32 AM

Okay there is this guy who acted like he liked me for 3 weeks. or maybe a month. he would always flirt with me. and it was obvious he had a little crush on me. so i developed a crush on him. each day he would talk to me and give me all these compliments my crush started becoming stronger. so id have to say it was semi strong UNTIL he asked my friend if i liked him and he told her that i was chill but he liked someone else. then after that day it seemed that he turned into a 12 year old boy. and didnt talk to me. and just stoped saying hi to me. didnt chat me on facebook anymore. or anything for basically two whole weeks and when he did talk to me he told me to shut up in the hallway for no apperant reason and even said he wanted to slap me in my face and that i was annoying AND THAT honestly scared me!! i was scared and upset that he said that to me. when all i was doing was talking to my friend. i asked why he said that later on facebook and all he had to say was " haha jk <3" and he sounded dead serious when he said it in the hallway though. and i was like " okay that was mean though lol" and he never responded. so the next day at school he didnt even look at me ( same old same old cept everyday he stares at me in class) and i was sick and tired of him. so to blow off some steam i just deleted him off facebook and unfollowed him on tumblr and blocked him. im sure he noticed i deleted him..... but like i just dont understand why hes so mean to me when ALL i did was have a crush on him. hes the one that basically pursued me! we are both 16... in 10th grade.

Daniela · 11-09-2012, 08:40 AM

Is he bipolar?!

ashley s · 11-09-2012, 08:40 AM

I don't know what his deal is. But the same thing happened to me, except the words were harsher, and he told me to kill myself... But then like 3 weeks later he messages me like nothing ever happened. One minute he's telling me he likes me, then the next he's calling me dumb. So I deleted him/blocked him. But the sad thing about my situation is that this guy is 23 and this isn't high school. Some boys never grow up. And it seems that you're guy is either playing games with you, or there's something wrong with him, and you should stay away. He could be bi-polar or have anger issues. Either way, he's no good for you. So I say let it go before it goes further and you end up getting emotionally or physically hurt.