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Is my wife attracted to her coworker?
06-19-2014, 12:24 AM
Post: #1
Is my wife attracted to her coworker?
She sings and dances at a theater. She has already mentioned that she has found this guy physically attractive, and I know the fact that he sings and dances and I don't is against me. Whenever she mentions his name, she always says the first and last name (granted that they are both one syllable, and there is someone else who occasionally shows up with the same name). Also, I'm 5'8, she's 5'9.5, and he's like 6'. We are all in our early 20s

I don't think my wife would cheat. But I know people arent perfect. She briefly mentioned him (we are honest with each other) and then said he wasn't an issue. But the mentioning of the last name every time is concerning, and she is always eager to see what it is he posts on facebook for their group.

I just want to know if I should be wary and or if this is just normal.

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06-19-2014, 12:36 AM
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Sometimes you get a crush and its fine as long as you dont act on it. Its just a new exciting person that hasnt heard all your stories 5million times and that have new stories to share. Once you get talked out there isnt much of anything left to discuss and you move on.
I wouldnt encourage alone time, but just be as supportive as you possibly can. Be aware of what is going on and keep your eyes open, but dont start freaking out about something that has not and probably will not happen.

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06-19-2014, 12:49 AM
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I think your wife is attracted to him and this is making you insecure. You should discuss this with you wife about this before it is too late.
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06-19-2014, 12:51 AM
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Well she is your wife and you should trust her but also watch her. If she is less interested in you and keeps talking about him, you should tell her how you feel so you won&#x27;t find out the hard way.
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06-19-2014, 01:07 AM
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I'm not going to tell you you are being foolish, nor am I going to tell you to watch out. What I am going to tell you is this ...


It might be nothing, it might be something. But your own insecurities might breath a spark to a flame. He's a jack. Don't crown him king. She married YOU. That height thing? It is of absolutely no importance:
The story of Mr and Mrs Happy
I know a man, yes, a MAN, just under a meter tall. I'll call him Mr Happy. (Yes Mr, I know you are reading this too.) When he walks into a room, he dominates that room. The kindest person you could ever meet. But he has a presence about him that nobody can miss. You know he is there long before you see him. Tease him about his height and you're in for sports. He takes the sting out of the teasing and turns it to funny. Good funny. He'd say: "I'm happily married to a beautifull brunette twice my height and halve my age. It captures the imagination. WHAT? I'm the tallest person in the room!"
This is an awesome couple. I wish you could see them. He calls her his queen. I asked him about it one day. Are they play acting to amuse other people? He said: No. Look at me. It used to bother me. I was a very angry little man. If a man wants to be a king he has to find himself a woman to be his queen,(what do you expect a queen to be?), Marry her, ... and the up-side is: you become her king (what does she expect a king to be?). Honest communication and truthfull consideration breeds respect, trust and security. Get on the same page. Compromise where compromise is due. And there you have it. Kings and Queens. Like cards, easy as pie, if you know the rules and keep them. Blissful!"

So, here it is: She IS your queen. Isn't she? Treat her as such. She married YOU (not some one else). Be her king. Stand tall. Re-capture the imagination. Like Mr Happy said: honest communication and truthfull consideration ...
All the best.
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06-19-2014, 01:11 AM
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Who knows, Jack. But since your wife is in the entertainment business and actively working as an actress... she's in a profession that encourages quickly bonding with co-workers in order to produce an excellent product and then, when the show is over, moving on with little looking back in order to conserve the energy required for the next production. That's how it works. People may seem close during a show and not find the time to visit again for years.

Because of this, the people (like a husband) who are NOT "in the business" are of extreme importance in their lives. You provide the consistent. You are the reality that holds through all the constant change that being an actress requires. Please don't doubt your importance to your wife.
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