Husband sends co-worker a friend request?

[495]

I have a gmail account and decided to join Google+ (mini Facebook). I was on my account and looking at the "People You May Know" section. My husband was the only "friend" on my account, so it obviously showed some of the people he knew. My husband was sitting next to me and I just asked if he knew so and so, etc. Then I saw a girl's name and I asked if he knew her and he said, "no". He ran to pick up a pizza and the computer was on and logged into his FB. I looked at his "Activity Log" and he friend requested this same girl on FB. He returned home and I told him that I know he's lying. He finally admitted, 24 hours later, that he did know her and he didn't tell me bc of the way I would have reacted. She works at one of his stores that he audits. He said she isn't pretty and has a "big nose". He admitted to adding her on FB before he even left the store. He said he added her bc she's looking to fill a position at her store and if he knew of anyone to tell her. Is this a lie???

[starfish]

You could expect open honesty from your husband if you didn't go all nazi every time a female (50 percent of the population) walked into the scope of your prying eye.

He told you this.

Were you able to listen? LISTEN.

[Stephanie73]

It's probably not a lie. Your husband is going to have female friends that you don't know. That's just the way it is. Maybe he didn't admit to knowing her because you'd be jealous of something that meant absolutely nothing to him. If you want your husband to be happy, you're gonna have to trust him.

[Sue C]

IF you've never had reason to doubt him prior, I wouldn't start now. He no doubt is telling you the truth & as he said, was afraid you would be upset about it which is exactly what happened. I would give him the benefit of telling you the truth if you've never had reasons or problems before...best to you, honey...

[zoom]

Yes its a lie and he is up to no good with her. He is sexually attracted to her and wants to keep her hidden from you. Time to tell him you dont tolerate a cheater. So he knows what he is gambling.