Custodial interference question.?

[Bryan]

My ex left state with my child, alienated me from my daughter for 6 months. I found out as much info about my daughter as possible using social media and google. I utilized contact via text and email to communicate with my ex with little response (which led me to purchase an email tracker for proof the emails were opened for legal documentation).I located her address through social media and google earth. I discovered Facebook posts by the man she left me for depicting marijuana use. I don't condone this around my child and sent an email stating so with screenshots.
They began accusing me of stalking because of my email tracker (which I was honest about having), and the screenshots I retrieved from public social media posts. As well as harassment. I email and text daily to request phone calls
Today I received a phone call from the man my ex had the affair with and who had the marijuana posts. He specifically told me I shall not call, text, or email the mother of my child until a parenting plan was in effect. He then told me that there will be no contact with my daughter until such plan is determined by a court of law. If I need to contact anyone in regards to my child or otherwise it will be through him by email only! He then sent me an email stating the same thing with a copy of harassment and stalking laws with penalties.
Is it legal what he did? Do I have to gob through him? Is this custodial interference? Do I still direct me emails to her in regard to my child?
Im in oregon and she is in washington if that helps!

[davidmi711]

What he did is legal. If you continue to e-mail, call and text they can file harassment charges. No it is not custodial interference as you have no custody.

All that said, what you need is a lawyer. You will not get to see your daughter until you have one that helps you obtain a parenting plan.

[Janet Pierce]

Were you married to her? If not have you gotten court ordered visitation?

If not, sadly you have zero rights. Get to court.