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does it look " needy/desperate " to snap a guy one picture in a bra?
06-20-2014, 05:52 PM
Post: #1
does it look " needy/desperate " to snap a guy one picture in a bra?
Keeps wantimg me too. Im 16 btw. What do u think? Should I? Or would I look desperate?

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06-20-2014, 06:01 PM
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Only do it if you really trust that this guy won't end up showing all of his friends. Since you're 16 I wouldn't do anything more than a bra picture. You won't look desperate, but most likely he'll expect you to keep sending him those types of pictures.

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06-20-2014, 06:10 PM
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It isn&#x27;t desperate. But, you do know he is just using you. So if you are ok with being used. Go for it.
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06-20-2014, 06:20 PM
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Ew!! - See back in my day (( 90's, early millennium )) we didn't have all of this social media stuff. Girl if you go on sending naked photos now you will never be able to run for president, Miss America, anything cool because 9 times out of 10 he is going to put them on instagram or some other site if you piss him off. And as you may know, photos stay on the net FOREVER. I say hell no. If he wants to see your goods tell him to grow up and get his peek on face to face
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06-20-2014, 06:29 PM
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If you are sending a guy nude/suggestive pictures then be aware of the risks of releasing such pictures. Once it's out of your hands you can't control what happens to it and where it goes. Sometimes guys will share pictures like this with their friends, it gets around social circles, it can come back to haunt you on facebook, twitter. Etc.

These are just natural risks with the way social media is today. That doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with taking suggestive pictures of yourself. Just know the risk and be ready to accept the "worst." (depending on how much you care, the "worst" case scenario may not even bother you that much.) If you are cool with taking a picture like that of yourself and you see it as no big deal, and don't care if other people see it, then that is great. Go ahead and take your picture and share it if you like.

Be aware of your own feelings though. Make sure you are 100% comfortable, that you're not sending this picture with the expectation of getting something in return (you don't want to be disappointed or feel desperate for something) and make sure you are 100% comfortable with the "worst" case scenario. You can take some precautions against that scenario by cutting our your face or any distinguishing features or backgrounds. If you don't want it linked to you or your phone number you could send it from online or another phone or even just print it and give it to him. This makes it easier for relative anonymity or deniability if need be.

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