im so fucked right now.?

[849]

I need some advice here, so i had started talking to this girl at my work and we were getting along pretty well, I asked her out a few days later. No problem, but then the day before asking her out my i was in a group chat with a couple buddies and they made a bet that i couldn't get her to go out with me, the bet was a joke, but i have this one uptight friend who took it to heart and sent her the chat over facebook, and since then she got really pissed off and hasn't been replying to my texts. My friend basically threw me under the bus and out of the picture because he wants to get with her too, but im so fucked right now and i dont even care about starting a relationship with her, it's just weird to see her at work, and think about me as a guy who only wanted to go out on her with date because i wanted to win a bet.

[Kimberly]

Serves you right, think before you act next time

[dina]

Talk to her... Face to face, it will fix things between you to.,go for it !

[john]

You need to understand that you made a mistake. When you are making a relationship with a person what happens in the relationship stays in the relationship. What you do not do, what you never ever do, is to talk about your girl with your buddies. And the reason is because of what has happened to you; you just cannot trust other guys with this kind of information. But you are telling us here just what happened which is a strength and a good first step. We all make mistakes. The important thing is to learn from the mistake and not repeat it.

[Antipater]

To Kimberly and John, that does not solve the problem. Dina, on the other hand, beyond her decorous way of putting it, knows the truth. The best thing for Thomas Stys to do is to go up to this woman and explain the situation. It does not matter that they will not end up to together, what matters is the integrity of both parties. If he does this, then he has quite a bit of strength.