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738 · 06-22-2014, 10:05 AM

Hello, im a freshman in high school never had a gf but i have had girls like me but i didn't feel the same way. I liked a girl in the fall and i was going to ask her to homecoming, BUT i made a stupid mistake and told a guy in my cooking class and told him i was going to ask her on Sunday. Saturday night i check my instagram and he had asked her after he told me he was going to ask another girl. I'm very nice too, so i didn't get mad at him. Then i quickly got over her. Soon there was another girl and she was gorgeous and nice and perfect. She liked me and again i made another mistake and lost contact with her for awhile. I told the same "friend" about the situation and i just got a snapchat from the girl and the guy was in it. And the girls friends say they have a thing but they aren't officially going out. I'm just wondering if i should tell her how i feel and what i should say? And how to win her back and not be awkward talking to her? Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this.

Emily · 06-22-2014, 10:06 AM

Doesn't seem like a friend to me. You should tell him what he's doing is not cool.
If you want to tell her, say something like "The other day I told __ that I liked you, then two seconds later he's all over you. Idk if you like him but he's probably only doing it to get me mad. He might not actually like you."
Or you can tell him that you like some other girl, and maybe he'll go after her instead?

Lieona · 06-22-2014, 10:18 AM

The best relationships start with friendship. So don't psych yourself out, thinking about being in a relationship with her if she is with another guy. Focus on becoming one of her good friends, and later on tell her how you feel when you feel it's time. Arguing with the guy she is with, will just make her feel like an item you're fighting over.

Beth · 06-22-2014, 10:33 AM

Number1. Quit telling this so called friend anything.
Number 2. Just ask the girl out if she wants to go fine if not oh well her loss.
Number 3. Don't worry about what other people think they are just as uneasy feeling as you are at that age.
Number 4. Next time you find someone you like just ask her first.