Did this girl use me?

[979]

I met her online. Known her for 3 years. Was in an online relationship for 1 years. She moved around a lot as a kid. A loner. No social skills. Books smart and naive. She's self righteous, critical, analytical, objective, intolerant, sarcastic, manipulative, etc.

She manipulated me into a relationship by wanting a role model. Then I got negated, manipulated, twisted around, she manipulated my sub conscious and always turned everything against me. She loved the validation of always trying to be right so she could believe in herself. She did come along way with me but I felt like she was just using me and i got nothing but misery and anxiety from her. After a year, she was overly confident and became a legend in her mind. People started talking to her, and it helped her self image cuz she's insanely insecure. After the positive responses, she acted like she was becoming uninterested in a relationship with me but had sneaky ways of saying it by twisting ways and trying to blame me until she finally came out and said she talked to a guy 6 times, had a crush, then stopped talking to him cuz she was with me. Then she tried blaming it on me saying if I wasn't talking to girls on Facebook then she wouldn't need to notice other guys which was bs.

I broke up with her cuz she's immature and problematic - her own family has problems with her. Now she's trying to get my attention because I'm not there to empower her and she's became a recluse again and insecure around people.

[Jane]

It seems to me that you liked playing the role of the savior. That's probably why you stuck around. Plus I bet you're also lonely, maybe just as lonely as she is. You need to find people in real life that are comfortable in their own skins and don't get off on playing mind games. They're out there. Best of luck to you.

[Dakota]

I Think people like that are emotionally unstable. they rely on other people to be happy, confident ext. Shes poison. id stay away from her. I believe you deserve someone so much better after dealing with her ass for a year!
Have no contact.
block on all social media and numbers.
and youll be free! shes not worth your time!

Goodluck!

[foxfire]

Stay away from her, she's an ex for a reason, she was what you call a "toxic" girlfriend, it's her problem not yours, you did the smart thing, now stay broken up with this girl

[Stacie Danielle]

I agree with jane. I'd also say yeah, you've been used. Unfortunately people like her will need someone to soak up all the problems so she doesn't have to. The snide comments will be, like you say, to make herself feel better.
You're a good person by the sound of it. Stupid for sticking around bit you won't go for someone like that again I'm guessing.
Stay strong, you're worth so much better than being used.