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My friend's wife wrote me & asked me if me & her husband have been intimate, should I tell her?
06-22-2014, 12:14 PM
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My friend's wife wrote me & asked me if me & her husband have been intimate, should I tell her?
Him & I have been friends for about 5 years, when we first became friends we did try at a relationship but it didn't work, two years ago I moved away from our hometown & we lost touch.

As far as I have been concerned he was single, first off let me say that no we have not been intimate in any way, we kissed once over 3 years ago, however on my facebook & my instagram account he leaves very inappropriate messages on my pictures, he writes me on FB & tells me that he still has feelings for me, he sends me music & tells me that he dedicates the songs to me. On his social media accounts he appears as a single man.

Well I went to go visit my home-town last week & when I got back today I received a friend request & a message from hiss wife, she ask me if I seen him when I came to town & she tells me that she has been seeing over a period of time the comments that he will say to me on my pictures(my profile is public) & she has been disgusted for a while now & just felt the need to write me, I am very nice to her & tell her that nothing is going on & that I had no clue he was even married. She ask if we text or if he has said any inappropriate things to me through messages & I haven't replied yet.

He has told me just in the past weeks that I am the love of his life, he can't understand why we didn't work out. I am contemplating whether I should tell her or not? If it was me, I would want to know. I have been in her shoes before, but that was just with a boyfriend not a husband, so I am not sure what to do.

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06-22-2014, 12:23 PM
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If you want to tell her, tell her, but she really ought to be asking him these questions. It speaks volumes about their marriage that she has to ask you. I think whatever choice you make is OK. I'd cut contact with him, at the least, I mean, you know he's a cheater and you aren't interested, so what's the point?

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06-22-2014, 12:34 PM
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Tell her!
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06-22-2014, 12:36 PM
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he sounds like a really creepy man...both of you should cut contact with him....
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06-22-2014, 12:52 PM
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Tell her, and then block them both.

She needs to know where she stands with her own husband. But you don't need to be part of the ongoing drama.
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06-22-2014, 12:54 PM
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Tell her you have not been intimate with the man and you had no idea he was married so she should start there with her questions to him to talk to him
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06-22-2014, 12:56 PM
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Well what would be the point in telling her? Ask yourself what it would help or hurt for her to know. Sure if it was you you'd want to know. We all would want to know male or female if the person we thought was ours and ours alone was being an emotional or physical whore to other people.

But you are just as much to blame as he is because you are allowing him to talk to you this way and to Facebook you and whatever else you. So if you're going to tattle on someone.... tattle on yourself, too. And make sure you're helping someone and not ruining their lives before you do it.

Don't clear your conscious just so you can.... if you're going to break a heart that doesn't deserve to be broken. You and he are actually the ones that deserve it. You've allowed him to talk to you in ways he shouldn't be doing.... UNLESS OF COURSE YOU'RE BOTH TRULY IN LOVE. And in that case HE should tell her and get a divorce and be with you and stop this backstabbing HER.

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06-22-2014, 01:03 PM
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Tell her. And stop ruining their marriage, end the friendship. Wow.
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06-22-2014, 01:07 PM
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You should tell her everything she has I right to know. Also I would sever any contact with her husband he sounds like a creep.
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06-22-2014, 01:16 PM
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He should have told you He was married before He had sex with you.
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