is she interested in me?

[Jack H]

There was this girl in college and we were really good friends. I asked her out twice but she said no.

Well it's been a few years since college and we've not really spoken to me over the years. I would say hi to her and help her out with a few stuff. We've still got each other on Facebook so we both havr access to talk to each other.

I signed up to Plenty of fish 2 weeks ago and I found her on there. On it it says an first date for her would be going out for drinks. I didn't send anything to her I just went on her profile. Well last night at 3 in the morning (I was playing games) and I get a message from her on the Plenty of fish website. We spent about 40 mins talking to each other before going to sleep.

Well today we've been talking to each other non stop (both through POF and Facebook) and I asked her if she wanted to go out for some drinks sometime for a catch up(to test ground) and she said yes.

So as the title says is she interested in me?

Thank you for your time.

[AintItFun?]

Or maybe, you're an old friend and she wants to catch up with you. Not that interested in sitting on your cock! sorry!!

[38lsb]

Well duh

[Daisy]

Yes. She approached you and agreed to go for a drink with you. She wouldn't have responded to your messages etc. if she wasn't at all interested. Of course, it's early days so stop reading so much into everything and just let the relationship develop.

[Jay B]

She's interested in going on a date with you. That's all any of us, as well as you, can know from the situation. Interest doesn't exactly mean unadulterated attraction-- because neither of you know enough about the other person right now, especially because you haven't been super close in a while and have probably grown into your own identities over time. (Which is why she said no previously but is saying yes now-- things, and people, change.)

The date is the only way to reveal if she likes you, and the truth is, sometimes it takes more than just one date before you can know for sure. You both have to get to know each other on a personable level again before you can tell if you're a good match! Just take it easy and if she keeps wanting to go out on more dates with you, it's an obvious sign that everything is going well. Your best bet is to just be yourself and have fun. If the chemistry is there, it'll make itself known over time!