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Am I over reacting?
06-23-2014, 04:55 AM
Post: #1
Am I over reacting?
My boyfriend and I have been back together for a month now and he's seeming to become distant. My mom found out that I had snuck out to his house so he had to drive me home. I told him i didn't get any punishment and everything is okay but Now he's barley talking to me. The day i got caught he told me he was going camping that weekend and I said i would like to go. Well he still went but with other girls and didn't even ask if i still wanted to go or anything. He didn't even let me know he was still going camping and wouldn't have service. (he never really tells me anything) i found out two days later when I asked why he was was ignoring me. He didn't even tell me when he got home so we could talk again. It seems like everything comes before me. If he's with his friends he dosent talk to me at all. And he never makes the plans to hangout, I have to.

I just feel like he dosent want to be in this relationship anymore. Like he dosent try at all to be with me. Maybe I'm over reacting but I'd like some reassurance before i talk to him about it.

Plus he won't put on any social media that were together. He says he hasn't just because he dosent know how but I've offered to do it and he made up an excuse not to. That makes me kinda wonder if he's cheating on me or not. Or maybe he thinks were just friends with benefits and not together like i think we are. Please give me ideas of what to say, or if i shouldn't say anything because I'm over reacting. Thanks for reading.

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06-23-2014, 05:05 AM
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You are not over reacting. A guy that really cares about you is going to want to spend as much time with you as he can, even before his friends. It really seems to me that he doesn't care about you one way or the other. Since you mention friends with benefits, its possible the only reason he still talks to you at all is for sex.

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06-23-2014, 05:13 AM
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You seem to be the unfortunate side chick. And no youre not really overrreating, hes not acting like a boyfriend. I would talk to him directly about this, in person, and not over text or even phone call. Ask what youre doing wrong first. "What am i doing wrong?" is much much better than "Whats wrong with you?" It sets the conversation up for you to get more valuable information out of it rather than him and you both just getting angry. Sorry to tell you, but theres probably another girl at this point
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