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Boyfriend does this after sex. Confused?
06-23-2014, 04:11 PM
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Boyfriend does this after sex. Confused?
I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we have been having sex for 4 months. Everytime that we have sex, once he has orgasmed he immediately will go on facebook. He doesnt cuddle or hug me, just grabs his phone and goes on facebook. I want to stay in bed and he leaves me and goes to another room to the computer/facebook.when he goes on facebook he just scrolls through the newsfeed

when i asked him why he said that after he orgasms he needs space. he said he doesnt know why maybe that he needs to recharge because he feels his energy is drained.

he has always done this from the very first time we had sex and i lost my virginity to him. and i felt very upset he didnt attend to me but went on facebook and got up and left straight after. im confused if he loves me or not by his actions. thanks

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06-23-2014, 04:18 PM
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Big world diffferent peeps, maybe thats just the way he is.. maybe your horrible in bed and he cant wait until hes done, maybe hes just using you.. who knows!

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06-23-2014, 04:26 PM
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Love? Lol, keep in mind, anytime sex is involved, love is probably the last thing on mind. Love has very little to do with sex. Love is simply to feel respect for all of existence. What you two and 99.99999% of all other relationships is conditional love.
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06-23-2014, 04:42 PM
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There could be many reasons why your boyfriend behaves in this way after sex. Could be he does not like the intimacy of afterwards and cuddling makes him uncomfortable or awkward. Perhaps there is guilt over the deed itself, perhaps he simply likes to get finished so he can move onto something else. None of this helps you so you need to sit down face to face and be honest with him, share your feelings and likewise, get him to share his. Open communication is the key to any relationship and if you both want/need different things, you either a) come to a happy medium and some level of flexibility from both of you, b) you accept your differences and do not expect anything else or c) you go your separate ways.

If this relationship is important to you, you will speak with your boyfriend so decide if you are willing to put in the time, effort and emotional energy. If the answer is yes, be open-minded and do not judge him, and if the answer is no, free yourself to move forward. It all comes back to what feels right for YOU.
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06-23-2014, 04:55 PM
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Hey I can help u. I have a friend who met the exactly same situation as u and I helped her figure out the truth. If u want a hand, call me.
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