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I need advice, I have this huge crush on someone I've never met?
10-01-2012, 06:23 AM
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I need advice, I have this huge crush on someone I've never met?
There's a guy on twitter, we talk a lot, he is so sweet, and kind, and I really really like him, I was talking to him and he said 'if only you lived here' and I was like :O because I do genuinely "twitter love" him, I really want to meet him too, he lived in Scotland though. And no he is not some perverted man. Trust me, I know him well enough. I don't know what to do. I'm crazy tbh, I have this crush on someone I've never met, it genuinely makes me sad that I won't be able to go out with him, and I feel like I'm such a weirdo. Any advice of help?

Thank you(:

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10-01-2012, 06:31 AM
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hmm. well this could be a case of pure infatuation. maybe give it some time. this is a tricky situation. i mean..

I GOT IT!!!!

ok.. for now you should talk to him and just enjoy his company. and plan to visit him in a few years once you've saved up enough money. think about how wonderful it would be to actually meet him and if your set and know that you can't like another guy as much as u like this one, then its set in stone. save up money and after a few years of delicate planning you can finally meet.

ok! so if you keep this up, you will either actually go through with your plans, or eventually lose interest and stop thinking about him. either way you dont have to feel sad like your letting a potential person out of you life. in other words, after a few months or a year so on, if youve been saving up and planning to see him you'll feel hopeful and happy and have a goal to work towards. OR youll lose interest and slowly and painlessly forget about him.

haha sorry im just thinking out loud. its crazy but it might work.

i mean who know maybe you will meet him and have like, a romantic comedy episode in your life. ORRR you'll just simply stop thinking about him and find another guy who will make you feel happy

EDIT: sometimes having a crazy idea helps a little in life. you may feel this way now, but you will mature as time goes on. you will meet new people. you will experience feeling you've never felt before. but if you still feel the same way about his guy, then go for it! visit him. after years of saving up and planning you'd deserve it.

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10-01-2012, 06:31 AM
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I think we all go through this stage. I think you may just like the idea of him, yeah sure he seems lovely etc. But, he could different in person. Happened to me, it weren't pretty.
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