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What should I do about this guy of Facebook that keeps liking everything I "Like?"?
06-23-2014, 02:30 PM
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What should I do about this guy of Facebook that keeps liking everything I "Like?"?
I know him in real life, but I don't see him often. On the right vertical sidebar on Facebook on a PC, where you can see what all your friend's activity on Facebook is, I can see that he's been liking most of everything I have clicked Like on. He's also liked some of my profile pictures. I've been playing with his head by liking romantic things on my news feed lately. But I don't like the guy, and this is getting annoying. Should I message him to stop? It feels like he's stalking me in a way. It's been going on for almost a week. What should I do?

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06-23-2014, 02:31 PM
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Who cares? If he stalks you in it, Tell your parents or if you're older the police

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06-23-2014, 02:43 PM
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Don't be hostile towards him cuz he sounds like he would be one to start getting defensive and playing dumb as if he didn't know what he was doing. Just message him on facebook and get to know him, then casually bring up something about your "boyfriend" and when he takes the bait and asks tell him how you can't believe how protective he is sometimes and you had to tell him to back of this one guy because he wouldn't leave you alone and your boyfriend almost fought him. That'll freak him out and if he doesn't leave you alone after that just let me know I got tons of great ideas haha.
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06-23-2014, 02:52 PM
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If you feel uncomfortable unfriend him or block him.
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06-23-2014, 03:00 PM
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Well... Umm... I guess... That could kind of upset him... If you know what I mean...
Firstly, you shouldn't have given him false hopes. Now you're stuck with him and you'll probably break his heart. Maybe the situation isn't as I think as it is, but the line "I've been playing with his head (...) lately." certainly makes it sound like that. Ans the fact that he likes what you like.
I don't... like people that (intentionally and/or consciously) play with others heads. But let's keep my personal opinion out of this. (one question: DID you intentionally and/or consciously play with his head, or did you not realize until after you liked those things? 'Cuz if you did, it's gonna be a bit harsh to tell him to stop. And if you didn't... Thank god, you're not so bad as I first thought)

Firstly, I'd be as honest as possible. If you didn't mean to give him false hopes, say just that.
Secondly... Oh god, umm... Try not too hurt his feelings too much. I'm a guy myself, and I know what it feels like to... 'like' someone and having your feelings unanswered. Yup, I do... :/
Thirdly, try not to sound too harsh or annoyed.
Fourthly, fourthly... Umm... Don't forget to say that you'd like him to stop, but don't be too blunt.
Fifthly, try to say it in a way that doesn't upset him too much, makes him go all defensive. Could be a bit difficult.
And that's all, I think... Yup.

PS.: If you think he's just being a creep/jerk or that he's just stalking you (read: that he doesn't have actual feelings for you, at least not romantically), just ignore the rest of this answer and tell him to shut up. As bluntly as possible. I don't like creeps/jerks/stalkers (and I don't think you do either).
PPS.: Of course the easiest way would be to do what Matt says, but didn't you say that you know him IRL? So maybe that isn't the best option... And maybe it is, who knows?
PPPS.: And of course you can pretend you have a boyfriend (if you don't actually have one) and drop 'hints'. You've got the problem and multiple ways to solve it, so it's you who gets to choose one.

OMG-alert! This is probably the (second-)longest answer I've ever given... Lawl (my version of lol - xD)
btw, I totally agree with "Love me for me".
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