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My Best Friend Of 18 years just found out im lesbian on social media, what should i do?
06-24-2014, 01:39 AM
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My Best Friend Of 18 years just found out im lesbian on social media, what should i do?
Ever since, she's been putting space between us. Not returning my phone calls. And just overall, acting very strangely towards me now. What should I do? Please, Mature intelligent answers only. Thank You.

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06-24-2014, 01:50 AM
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Well, of she can't accept you for who you are, maybe she isn't the best friend. How long has she been putting space between you two? For a few days/weeks? In that case, she may just be shocked, or hurt that you didn't tell her. If she is ignoring you and being mean, lets just say, some people aren't evolved enough to accept that everyones not the same. Go see her in person. Sit down with some tea, or for coffee, and have a serious discussion. Tell her your real thoughts. Why you didn't tell her, how you feel now that she knows, and what it means to be a lesbian. Tell her that just because you like girls, doesn't mean that you like ALL girls, and that you only have, and only will ever think of her as a sister.

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06-24-2014, 02:02 AM
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That's tough. If you really care for her and don't want to lose what you have as friends you might want to try to talk to her about it in a non "in your face" kind of way. Ask her what her thoughts are on the issues concerning the LGBT community. Be direct but polite that you don't want this to hinder your friendship. But ultimately it will be up to her to accept who you are or not. I wish you luck. Maybe your friend just doesn't know how to feel about the information and a simple conversation will clear everything up. I hope that is the case.
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06-24-2014, 02:13 AM
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In a way I can understand, not about being a lesbian, but NOT having TRUSTED her and respected the friendship with your "best friend". It' s a matter that you failed with Love, respect , consideration and trust,
towards your best friend.
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06-24-2014, 02:25 AM
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I feel more so she may be upset because she did't hear it from you and found out via social media. I would maybe talk to her and apologize and explain why you didn't tell her (afraid, didn't want to lose her etc).
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