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What should I do? Please any advice is helpful, thanks! =)?
11-09-2012, 08:47 AM
Post: #1
What should I do? Please any advice is helpful, thanks! =)?
Okay, i've know this guy for about 3 years, just as long as his current gf. I do have a little crush on him, but i'm not the type of girl that wants to get in the middle of relationships. I see girls do that crap & it's annoying af. Anyways, so me & her have been having some drama.

Like during the summer she went to my bff's house whom i've know since 3rd grade, & said I was flirting at lunch with her current bf, last year...but this was I believe before they actually started dating. Now i'm the one who encouraged him to ask her out. He asked me over facebook
"I'm thinking about asking ___ out, should I?" &
I said, follow your heart & he did. I told her this & she got angry, which I found strange.

Anyways, no I wasn't, me & him just somehow get along quite well. She threatened to beat me up...I know this because my friend told me this straight up. Me & my friend tell eachother everything pretty much, so that's not the much of a surprise that my friend told me, but she doesn't know my
friend told me this, my friends mom, sister, dad & our other friend told me.

Now, or I guess I should say a week ago during the homecoming football game I wanted to stay with my friend, instead of go sit with her & her friend in the bleachers, she basically said this "Well I guess we know who the follower is here" Idk if she knows I heard her, but the was most likely her intention, which that annoys me even more since her friend does the same thing, but worse...
& she even talked bad about her friend..who she calls her "bff". I know this because my friend (not the girl i'm talking mainly about) gave my other friend her (my other friend) facebook password & my friend was looking through our friends messages & I just happened to be there staying the night, so I overhead all the mean crap, I was seriously in shock.

I'm skipping some things to get to the point.

So anyways, these past few weeks he & I noticed & somehow on facebook, me & him keep getting unfriended from each other. It's happened a lot, at first we figured it was just something weird, but she has his password & this keeps happening.

I literally just a few days ago sent him a friend request 3 times all the times he accepted & still we ended up unfriended. Now today at lunch, she offered him a piece of cookie cake (it's two of our friends bday tomorrow, btw the two friends are dating & have the same bday, that is seriously amazing!) & he didn't take it. But when I offered it to him in a suggestion, he gladly took it.

& she was like " oh so you take it from her & not me" basically, & I forget exactly what he replied. Then later on, like at the end of the day, apparently she "heard" (I think she made this up to start drama, she loves drama.) that me & him "hugged" supposedly, but me & him have never unless it's a group hug with everyone in it also. She even get's mad when my friend (who told me everything she did, my bff) hugs him & basically says she can't hug him anymore, but here's the thing it's a friendly hug not a love hug, plus he ain't anywhere near my friends type, me & my friend have completely different types, plus my friend already has a crush on a guy...& no it's not him.

Anyway's so later, or like two hours ago I tried to look him up to see if I need to re-friend him again, & i can't find him at all, then I got one of my friends to look him up & he came up instantly, I can't even find him in any of my friends lists, & I know he's in there, cause he's friends with most of my closest friends. So the only thing I can figure is that she blocked me on his account.

She is the jealous type, like crazy jealous...but I figured it wouldn't be the same with me, but to my dismay...HELL NO -__-.

So now i'm thinking about telling him everything, through & through, but I don't wanna ruin his relationship with her cause he looks happy & i'm also afraid he won't believe me, but he doesn't seem like the type who won't believe.

I think he may most likely believe me, idk but I just have that feeling...I hope i'm right. Or i'm also thinking of telling him I don't wanna be friends with him anymore, even tho that is a complete & utter lie. I'm also afraid about how mad he might get at her.

I hate seeing him upset Sad.

So, yea I know this is long af, but thanks for reading & please be nice in the answers Thanks =3 (ps. she's 15, i'm 15 & he's 16) God Bless! =3 & she also knows Tae Kwon Doe

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11-09-2012, 08:55 AM
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I would tell him. In person, somewhere private. Where he can't be influenced by his gf. He'll probably believe you and you'll never know if you don't try.

Answer mine please: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...454AA7qCxP

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