This Girl dropped a Bomb on me. How do I stay friends with her.?

[Super]

asked a girl to dinner that I've been friends with for awhile. This was the second time cause the first time she had other plans and couldn't. We still hung out and talked after the first time I asked her.

So now when I called her and asked she said she "liked hanging out with me and talking with me, but only with sisters or small group and as friends." I was little shocked cause I was certain she had interest in me. Anyway I let her know I will respect and honor her feelings on the being friends and a day latter I asked if her and her sister wanted to meet up for lunch. Now I was just being nice about that cause I saw a lunch deal on fb...it wasn't a big deal if she said "yes" or "no". Well 3 days latter no response...still no big deal for me I didn't call asking what was up. Anyway she deleted me on her facebook friends list!!! I couldn't believe it...why in the world was she doing that for??? I wasn't calling all the time trying to push for a date with her anymore in fact I said "I'll honor and respect your feelings on that." Why is she treating this like a break up?? I'm planning to email her back and say can we just be friends. Why is she being so cruel? She must hate me cause I agreed with what she said. I'm not a stranger...man so hateful. I can care less about my feelings being hurt....I'm more concerned with the truth!

I think she's over reacting way too much. Or it's just pure hate. I'd still like to be her friend...any advice on what to do next?
****ACTUALLY I'm not over reacting as much as her. I DID WAIT about 2 months before I invited her And her sister like she stated for lunch. There was time that passed by b4 I asked her. I guess it was her just lying then.
**** Using caps doesn't mean I'm freaking out. It was so it would be noticed that I added more details. Second I wasn't interested in dating, but she probably thought that and jumped to conclusions ..I mean come on. It was 2 months later and I took her at her word. Didn't think she would lie to me. She said all that as if she meant it. Again you don't know the whole story...and it is hate more than likely. Cause I reassured her I was behind how she felt about it meaning I wouldn't push for a dating relationship period. That's why I said she overreacted to things...probably thinking I was trying, just like some of you are. I took her at her word I'm fine with not going on a date with her. It's not the issue here for me anyway I just wanted to see if things could be cool with us like they were b4. She didn't react like this last time I asked her to dinner...we talked a lot and hung out. So she dropped a bomb by going to the extreme this time when I

[Rob]

You freaked her out.

Just leave her alone, end of discussion.

If she deleted you it shows how much u mean to her, forget about her.

[Waterdragon]

she has made her decision ---- ignore her and move on ---- dont be nasty just be polite and find someone a lot more honest

[Jennifer Bawk]

Honestly.. i think your a bit overreacting, i mean i understand why your like wth.. but just calm down, dont email her, just let it go. She obviously isnt the kind of person that cares, and if she does, she doesnt show it to well, just let things blow over and chill. If she later talks then listens, but for now just forget about it.

[MM]

Someone's overreacting, dude, but I don't think it's her. You should have waited a little longer, or picked a situation that wasn't as close to one-on-one as you could get under the conditions that she set. If you come after her begging to be friends when she's made it clear that she needs some space after all, she's never going to want to talk to you again. Accept that the truth is that she's just not that interested in you on any level, and move on like it's genuinely no big deal. Because it's not. Right?

[angel]

You are over reacting, I mean you are using caps and are freaking out.

When a girl says let's stay friends and mentions she doesn't want to go out with you unless her sister or friends are around, it means she doesn't want to be around you, or be alone with you. It was her gentle way of letting you know that she's not interested and doesn't want to be involved with you.

You should've taken the hint and let her be. If you weren't interested in dating her you would not ask her and her sister out to lunch, come on.

She's not being hateful....etc. Move on.