Am I a b*tch for doing this?

[♥LuckyAsianGirl♥]

My boyfriend is in the services but as of right now he is in Florida. We just got done talking on the skype when he told me that he was going to help his female friend move into her new apartment,which I'm okay with. The part that upset me was when he said that it was going to be only the two of them and that he would spend three nights with her. He showed me a Facebook comment by her and it said "hey ur still going to help me move in right?Its only going to be the two of us plus a bottle ". The bf says that he promised to help her out awhile back and the other two friends can't help out anymore. Was it wrong for me to be suspicious? Then he brought up the fact that I hung out with a guy and never told him about it till couple days later. But this was before we started saying "I love you" n stuff and since I haven't hung out with a guy in more than five months.... alone that is.

[Michaelâ„¢]

I don't see how that makes you a b*tch. I think it's clear that you must not trust him a 100% though if it prompted you to look.

But do I think that it was wrong for you to look? Not at all, that is messed for him to be talking to her like that in my opinion. I would be every bit as upset as you, of course if it was a girl.

[Tomm]

Those 2 are definitely gonna get it on

[Tamara]

1 he shouldnt be spending any nights alone with some other female. especially not 3 nights.
#2 they shouldnt be drinking alone. that always leads to something.
#3 her comment makes it look like she has deeper intentions then just a friend coming to help her move.

I would never be okay with that.

[Hannah]

"Two of us plus a bottle " and a wink Yeah that's plenty reason to be suspicous are you kidding me your bf is gonna cheat on you did you see that wink face?

[Dhazelday]

Well first of all the fact that you are suspicious should be enough to let you know that the relationship is screwed up because when you trust someone you dont care if he hangs out with other girls. You definitely should be concerned. He will do something with her or develop feelings for her dont be surprised when he acts weird later on. Plus he is another place where you pretty much have no control over him. Tell him you dont want him to help her move and if he acts defensive about it he is up to no good if he loves you he will accept your decisions without any questions. You'll be amazed how many offers to just drink a coffee with another guy who wasn't my boyfriend I had to turned down because my boyfriend doesnt like it and I had to respect that because he talks to absolutely no other girls so its is possible how do you think Ive managed to have 7 years together with him. Now I am not saying you are not allowed to have guy or girl friend when you are in a relationship but only those you and your partner know mutually or agree with.

[Sws]

Well your right to stand up for yourself, if your boyfriend really loves you he wont even go help her to build trust between the two of you, since he is far away. If he does spend the night there, alone with another female, chances are she won't be on her cycle, it can happen. A lie can be told bc there is no way to prove it otherwise. Helping her move shouldn't be a bad thing but spending the night sure is. Does she know she can find other single men to help her move and those single guys will be ok to spend the night and she won't be causing conflict? If that girl knows about u, and she wrote that message, I'm sorry to say but she may want to share your man.