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PLEASE HELP. I need some really good advice. pleaseee.?
11-09-2012, 08:49 AM
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PLEASE HELP. I need some really good advice. pleaseee.?
I like a guy in my school & we're both in 10th grade. I kind of stalked him for a month. Passing by his class & in break I pass by him deliberately etc..

The problem here is that I know he knows I follow him or something. I act too obvious. We have these awkward eye contacts every time we see each other. He is extremely good looking.

My friends tell me to go talk to him but one of the reasons I wont is that it'd be weird talking to him after a month of creepy following.

I talked about this with my friend & he told me to ignore him for a week or two. I've been giving him attention for a month and he's not doing anything so my friend told me if I'd suddenly stop giving him attention he'd be curious and come after me or at least make a move.

So I did it & it worked. For the first time he was the one to pass by my class and follow me in the parking lot but he still didn't talk. Another reason why I'm not talking to him is that he's hot & someone that hot can't possibly be single.

I went to his facebook page and the only thing public is his gender. -.- Everything else has privacy. THERE IS NO OPTION TO ADD OR MESSAGE HIM so don't ask me to message him or add him. I would if he didn't have so much privacy.

I'm average looking & I've never had a problem with this until now. I don't have the guts to talk to him. Looks like I'l be waiting til he does. I need advice. Please help. Thanks.

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11-09-2012, 08:58 AM
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It seems like to me that you want to do something. Since you are young, I feel like this is a good way to gain some learning experience! You have a guy that is interested in your behavior. He notices you! In my opinion, you have nothing to lose by talking to him. If you don't talk to him now, the progress you've made will go nowhere.

You don't have to be super awkward when you talk to him either. You can just ask him how (something you have in common is). You know? I learned over the course of my years that it is better to do something than to sit around thinking about doing something but not.

The things people regret in life are opportunities they missed out on-- not risks they took.

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11-09-2012, 08:58 AM
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it is simple, you can wait for ever, or until someone else talk to him first and you stay regretting...or you can just wait a write moment and talk to him, tell him that you like him and that you would like to spend some time with him, hanging around and talk. Than you will see if he likes you. There is nothing to lose,you can lose only if you wait for ever.
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11-09-2012, 08:58 AM
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Silence is Golden but only under certain circumstances . It appears that he is a very reserved type of a character.Instead of keep on guessing find out an opportunity to talk to him.Without talking to you following you to the car park does not mean anything.If you get a chance of meeting him face to face without any fear say hi and see the reaction.If he responds surely you can start a short conversation. Otherwise you can arrange few girls who are your close friends and meet him somewhere in the campus and get friendly with him if you don't have the guts to talk to him .Indefinitely waiting till he talk to you is a wastage of time.Once you start a friendship you can think about the next step.
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11-09-2012, 08:58 AM
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Stop trolling with the same question.
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