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Girls Only: Does she still fancy me or is it over?? 10 points!!?
11-09-2012, 08:51 AM
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Girls Only: Does she still fancy me or is it over?? 10 points!!?
yeah, so there's this girl that I like. We're both 15 years old right now, but when I first met her, she was 13 and I was 14. She was in the year bellow me. I had a mate of mine who I had been friends with for a long time. I met her through him. He started dating her and all of that stuff. I would be on Facebook sometimes and she would pop up saying oh is mike there. I would say no, (cause he wasn't), and she would say 'good' and start talking to me and saying how she's missed me while i've been on holiday. Smile

Anyway, about June-July 2011, I got back off my holiday. She poped up on facebook and asked me if I wanted to go do a paper round with her. I said yes, but I wasn't really feelings the full kick of puberty and hormones and stuff then. Apparently, girls start getting those feelings earlier. Smile
When I met her, she would always be smiling and asking questions and stuff, and just being flirty and stuff. Any way, after wards, she met up with her friend, I was still with her, and we met up at a grassy bank near our school. She just all of a sudden said, me and mike -(her bf/my friend), had an argument while u were away on holiday. I asked why, and she said, cause I told him that I liked you. I 4 some reason didn't do anything. I hate myself for it now though!! Tongue lol.

We would be walking then, and she would hold my hand and start saying out loud, this is my new bf people.

Anyway, I finally realized that she was the one just before christmas 2011. I told her all of my feelings and she just replied and said, "sorry, but I don't feel the same way as you do. :/ There are plenty of other fish in the sea, don't worry :/" I said, what about the time you admitted to liking me, and she said, "I never said that!!".

So we didn't speak for about a month and then I saw her in school and started talking to her again. She would still be really flirty, offering me sweets and all of that weird stuff. Then, in june this year, (2012), she popped up and asked if I wanted to come out and walk her new puppy, just me and her. That went well, obviously. Big Grin

Now she's got herself a new boyfriend. Sad She still speaks to me and all of that stuff. When I saw her in school the other day, I saw just her and her friend, her bf went off somewhere. So I conducted a test. I saw her looking at me and I went over. She couldn't stop smiling, literally!!! Big Grin!!
We were talking and then, her friend said, right ceri, it's time to go, say goodbye, in a joking way. S I kind of gently grabbed her by the waist and fell back onto a wall with my hands around her waist. Her friend trying to pull her free. But I could feel ceri, (the girl I like) resisting being pulled towards her friend, and she was pulling herself towards me. She seemed pretty comfortable, if I must add, then she saw her bf walking a long and She pretty much blasted out of my grip.!!!!! :OOO.

When I speak to her on facebook she puts ...xxx after every message. Big Grin!!! When I speak to her in real life, away from the screen, she can't stop the smiling. Big GrinD
I look how she acts around over boys, but the only person she seems to be flirty with is her bf, and even with him, she doesn't seem anywhere near as flirty as she is with me!!! :OO

So what do you think?? Sorry it's long, but that's as short as I can put it!!! :/

10 Points for the most helpful answer!!! Plus, i'll answer urs too!!!

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11-09-2012, 08:59 AM
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I think she likes u ALOT and her bf maybe not as much and she might only be sticking with him cuz she's not sure what to do about things

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11-09-2012, 08:59 AM
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From what I have just read, she still really and I mean REALLY likes you.

The fact that she smiles at you all the time means she wants to make you smile back and that when she's around you or talking to you she becomes really happy.

The fact that she wanted to stay in your grasp pretty much seals the deal.

So my conclusion, it's far from over on her side. If you still like her, wait sometime, hangout with her show her your interested and you will be dating soon enough.

I really hope this helps.
And I don't mean to ask to much but please could you respond to my latest post I would really like to get a guys point of view.
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11-09-2012, 08:59 AM
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It seems she has mixed feelings for both you and her bf. I think she wants to show her love for you but there's a barrier between which it her bf (as you may understand). If you feel like you don't know what's happening her actions and words are confusing you or she's giving you wrong impressions. You just need to have it out right with her as much as you like her flirting and having fun with you it could be giving you the wrong sort of impressions, so just ask her what is going? I hoped I help!
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