is my boyfriend hiding something?

[iloveyooh]

Alright me and my boyfriend have been together for three months, in the first month he left to New York for about a month hes been back for three weeks now and the first three days him being back were fine then everything went down hill from that i came across his phone and went on his facebook i just had a feeling to i came across a message he sent a girl saying he use to like her alot then after that he wrote "surprise" he knew i went through it and he said that don't do it again because its about privacy yet he has Access to all my accounts and information so yesterday i saw he had a unread message from this girl and now his password on his phone is changed he has a thing now so when he gets a text i cant see who its from he wont let me anywhere around his phone. and NOW hes barely kisses me or even touches me we live together what does this mean could he be hiding something? Should i just leave now before i get more feelings? AND NOW btw hes going to work today with the girl he message saying he use to like a lot i dont know what to do

[Ben]

based from experience, just sit down and talk to him. the more you wait the wore its gonna get. and you cant make judgements. this could be a girl he met at band camp adn they just wanna talk. the not kissing part is wierd but maybe he just needs time, i mean ive done that too so goodluck and try this.

[Chloe]

Okay to be honest he is definitely hiding something from you, it does sound like he's cheating so if i was you i would confront him and if he denies it keep a close eye on him and if you think he's lying give him the boot. x

[Braydon]

One Question, Is he Jewish

[i]

he's probably pissed off. I mean you can't just go through your boyfriends phone. he might start to think you don't trust him.maybe he's meeting up with an old friend he used to like, SO WHAT? he loves you and that all that maters its best if you keep an eye on him. don't follow him around but talk to him once and a while share your feelings with him. without disclosure and honesty. your relationship is dead

[Mz. Shy]

I think the feelings he once had for this girl has come back and maybe he's losing interest in you and more for her, but this is the worse case senario. I'm pretty sure he wouldn't do anything like cheat but like someone said, you should talk with him and see what's up before making judgements.