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Why is my dad sending inappropriate messages to woman?
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Why is my dad sending inappropriate messages to woman?
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11-09-2012, 09:00 AM
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Why is my dad sending inappropriate messages to woman?
im a 13 year old girl living with my 2 married parents
when my dad was in the shower i looked on his phone and there were loads of messages(on his facebook)he sent to women like"love u babes xxx" and "i want the best for you xx" and "i will always find a place for you in my heart xxx".i was so shock i couldnt read more.i know it was wrong of me to look at his messages but.... when i was little my dad cheated on my mum and they separeted.i was really horrible because my mum went into a deopression(shes bipolar)and she had to go to hospital. after a year they got back together and now,im 13,and i find out he doing it again! i really dont wanna tell my mum and i dont have any family in this country! WHAT SHOULD I DO??!please help P.s.i took pics of the messagrs(they're in my secret folder on my phone)so i have proof. no answers like "stop snooping around your dad's phone!" or "this is an adult thing" also its not family or good friend because i looked at her profile and its a woman in her twenties that live in the same town as us!(weve only been living her 3 years!) i know i shouldnt have looked at the messages but i did... also im not confident enough to tell my mum because i love her so much i dont want her to feel hurt!!! btw mat i point out he is a 50 year old methodist(christian priest)!!! Ads |
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11-09-2012, 09:08 AM
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Don't tell, and try to not let your mom know.
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11-09-2012, 09:08 AM
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I wouldn't tell your mom. You don't want to hurt her. Talking to your dad wouldn't really help either. If he is a cheater, he isn't going to stop. All you will do is make him mad mad you. If you don't care about making him mad at you, you could tell him to stop or else you will tell mom.. but it probably is best to stay out of it, unless you think things will be better if they divorce.
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11-09-2012, 09:08 AM
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Ok so I'm 14 had the same situation with my step dad. Ok I'm WARNING you not to go to your mom. Specialy if she's bipoler. Go to your sister,brother or talk to your teacher (someone you trust). Secretly forward the message to your mom. Let her slowly notice something is wrong
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