Am i getting used by gf?

[GSN]

we have been going out for 2 months...we are both in college im a junior and she's a sophomore...i am her first bf

reasons i think she might be using me:
- it seems like i'm always paying for her...mostly like food...last night we went to a friends dinner and when it came time to pay she asked me if I needed her credit card but i said no...i guess she offered but still
- and then this morning she asked me where we wanted to go eat and i told her that i didnt have any money on me and she was like its ok i can pay and she asked me where i wanted to go and i told her somewhere cheap since she was paying but then she asked me if i just wanted cereal and i was like sure...so we ended up just eating cereal at her place...

- and then for lunch today she said she just wanted to make a sandwich but i said that i had some pizza at my place and i was going to go get it and i did...and when i brought it back she asked me if she should eat her sandwich or my pizza...she ended up eating my pizza lol

- and then today she brought up the topic of buying tickets for a concert next weekend...she didnt say i had to get it or anything...she just said "we still need to get tickets" but i have a feeling that im going to end up paying for it

reasons why i dont think she is using me:

- she has told her mother and brother about us...so im guessing she takes our relationship seriously
- she has introduced me to her friends...
- she has put us as her background on her iphone
- she has put us as her profile pic on facebook
- she has held my hand, hugged, and kissed me in public
- she did pay once for dinner and that was on our first date. And since we are in college she has dine-in-dollars which are basically food coupons u can use anywhere on campus cafeteria's and she has bought me dinner there a few times...but she needs to finish them by December so maybe she is just spending them on me cuz she has to finish them??
- she has made me sandwiches and given me breakfast at her place

what do you guys think?

[Amanda]

No she isn't using you.

[B Vijay Chandran]

Chillax...From how you sound,its clear she is NOT using you.Maybe she is a miser on the money part...just check that

[Jenny]

Definitely not using you

[Lillie]

I'm a girl and it doesn't sound like she's using you at all... She offers to pay so..
The pizza/sandwhich thing doesn't seem like a big deal.

[Liz]

No she is not using you.
Stop basing your relationship on finances.

[Stephanie]

No she isn't using you. Relationships are give and take and she is doing her share too. If she didn't do anything at all and made you pay for everything then I would be worried. If you both are hard on cash then tell her you guys need to go half on the tickets. Her offering to pay and doing all those things makes her seem like she is into you. Relax and enjoy your relationship.

[Carla]

I don't think she's using you at all. She's offered many times to pay for things and youve insisted that you would and when she offered to pay for dinner you insisted you went somewhere cheap. Thats because youre a gentleman and care about your girlfriend, but if you didnt insist on those things she would of probably paid. And alot of girls wouldnt even offer to pay aswell. She seems nice and when you went and got the pizza she chose to have your pizza because you made the effort to get the pizza and in my eyes i think if she ate the sandwich and not the pizza she would of felt rude because you made the effort to get it. And who would choose a sandwich over pizza?! she's definately not using you, seems polite enough to me ad decent by introducing you to her family

[Della Riata]

Cheeses, guy! If you're going to base your relationship on who is paying for what, maybe you should give her a chance to hook up with someone else? The place I come from, it is customary for the guy to pay for everything, unless the girl wants to pay. Otherwise, YOU, should be paying for everything! If this relationship get serious and marriage should come out of it? Are you going to expect her to pay for half of the house and all of the bills? NO! She's not using you, because she's offered to pay for some things and you've said no. She's also making food for you.

[Jordan]

You got serious problems bro! A girls thats using you is a girl who never offers to pay for anything, takes you for granted and doesnt care about your feelings, she would ASK you to pay for everything and never give anything in return, sounds to me like your the one hurting the relationship here, she sounds like a down ass girl and any man would be lucky to have her, get a clue dude!