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How do I tell a guy the kiss was a drunken mistake by text?
11-09-2012, 09:05 AM
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How do I tell a guy the kiss was a drunken mistake by text?
I met him the other night. We both had been drinking. We've been chatting a lot on Facebook and texting. He's a sweet guy, but he's not really my type, and I felt bad for him cos he had never been kissed. My friends say he's got asborgies or autism so I can't really lead him on anymore cos he'll just get hurt. He wants to go on a date sometime, I don't really want to as I'm really behind on work. And I don't really feel anything for him. Thanks for anything.
I said I can't meet up with him because I have too much work?! I'm obviously not going to meet with him...,, we also live really far away from each other. Probs like an hour or so away. So yeah I'll have to text him.
I didn't say 'it was a drunken mistake'.... I said 'I don't remember what happened, can we just be friends...' and now he won't stop talking to me/texting me asking me general stuff, cos 'he wants to get to know me better' so that we may be more then friends.. He also keeps writing a million 'x's but I never put any.. Why can't he get the message that I'm now interested.. I'm just to nice not to ignore him...

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11-09-2012, 09:13 AM
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"The kiss was a drunken mistake."

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11-09-2012, 09:13 AM
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Why by text ? Meet up with him and tell him... try to do it as soft as you can .
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11-09-2012, 09:13 AM
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You're best off just ignoring him from this point. He'll otherwise become very clingy since it was his first kiss and since you don't have any feelings for him, in the long run it is best for him. Short term you might be a bitch, but its for long term gain. He will become clingy if you let this persist. You've been warned.
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11-09-2012, 09:13 AM
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you have already answered your question yourself.

tell him "He's a sweet guy, but he's not really your type, you can't go on a date because you are really behind on work. And you don't really feel anything for him."

I hope it goes well for you.
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11-09-2012, 09:13 AM
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Seriously, to not tear him apart, I advise you to find a way, and the time to meet him again and say it to him in a friendly way.
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