Does she like me, or am I just a good friend?

[BJ5029]

Recently (about 6 months ago) I got back into contact with an old friend from primary school on facebook. We chatted now and then, and it went quite. About 2 months ago we started talking more often and we swapped phone numbers and began to text each other. About a month ago we met up, went to the pub, played a few games of pool and had a good laugh. From then on we were texting each every day, we always have loads to talk about and we really get on well. Last weekend we met up again, and did a bit of sight-seeing in her local city, had dinner out then we went back to her house. This is where it started to get a little confusing, for me at least...

We got back to her house, sat on the sofa and started watching TV. We are both into music and as I though we were already so alike I assumed she would enjoy the music I had on my ipod. So we listen to that for a bit (we went through all the old 90s songs we would have heard when we were young!). She then got comfortable and snuggled up to me which was nice. Her housemates joined us in the living room and sat on the other sofa, she didn't move so I assumed she was comfortable with being close to me around her friends. It was getting late and knowing that I had a bit of a long drive to get home (about an hour) she asked if I wanted to stay. I said yes, assuming that I'd be on the sofa for the night. After I had said yes, she sat up and said "seeing as you're staying you can play with my hair". I found this a little strange, as I've never had a girl ask for their hair to be played with. Yes, I have played with girls hair before but entirely of my own accord, never had I been asked. The time came for us to go to sleep and I asked where I'd be sleeping. She replied with "my bed", so at this point (naturally) I'm wondering what her intentions are. Anyway, we got into bed and she asked me to cuddle her, so I did and we ended up 'spooning' all night which was nice. At no point did I feel as though she wanted more, and I kept my cool and did the same. The morning came and we both got ready to leave, she got changed from her PJs into her clothes in my presence (although I hid under the covers until she was done), we had a hug at the front door, she went to work and I went home.

Later that day I text her explaining that I felt as though I was getting a lot of mixed signals, and that I didn't fancy her but that I was becoming rather fond of her. She replied later, saying that she "hadn't really thought about it until yesterday (the day we met up), but yeah we do really get on like a house on fire maybe just see how things go?". Since then the texts have become less regular. Is this because she knows I like her and feels as though she doesn't need to text me as much, or have I scared her away?

Yesterday we were texting and we're planning for me to go and visit at the weekend, she said she would help me with some design work I need to do and that she'll also cook for me. In my past experience if someone is willing to cook for you then they probably like you, but I'm not sure. The main thing is that she still wants to see me, right?

Now to throw a spanner in the works. One of her housemates is her recent ex, and she has told me that they still sleep together occasionally and that she still has feelings for her (yes, she's bisexual). However, she has also told me that she wants to move on.

A few other facts:
- she has told me that she can be herself around me.
- She has never ignored a text. If I don't receive a reply in the evening I will get one the next day.
- My hobbies include playing guitar and photography, both of which she has taken an interest to and wants me to teach her.
- We have loads of plans to go places. She asks if me and her can visit places all the time.
- She told me that her housemates think I'm lovely. Does that mean she has been talking to them about me?
- She has complimented me on my recent haircut, and also told me I'm "rather huggable".

Over to you, guys. I've tried to be as open an honest as I can as I would like a clear answer. Does she like me the same way as I like her, or am I just a good friend?

[Mr.Hafeez]

I think she likes you