Just told my friend something; she isn't saying anything?

[anonymous]

I just told my friend how I was raped last month. When it happened I stopped talking to her because I kind of closed up. I told her through facebook because I couldn't tell her to her face yet. She hasn't said anything yet. Is she in shock or something? I feel horrible over our friendship.

[GeneL]

You told someone on Facebook, where many others can read it, that you'd been raped?

I think that was your intention, in order to seek sympathy and attention from anyone who might read it.

[Kendrick]

Get the police, not yahoo answers and if you already have then just try and be as normal with her as possible, dont send her a million messages to read though just keep it short untill she replies, if she doesnt reply then she probably isnt a good friend

[Lamont]

No offense but r u Fu*king stupid never tell someone something like that on Facebook if u can't tell them n person then don't tell them at all n your friend is probably in shock or can't figure out what to say I hope u didn't just come out the blue n say it or it's even worse

[Phyl]

She may not know how to respond in such situations. She may just be sorry for you and what she thinks you are going through.
If she has some loyalty to the rapist, she may not know what to tell you concerning the situation.
I suggest that you go to her and ask her if she read the facebook message and what she thinks about it.
In all you do, think positive and do not give room to negative thoughts if you do not have verified proof.
Hope that helps.

[Gemma]

Oh Im so sorry! She is just shocked.just tell her how you feel. Please get the ploice to get involved! hugs from London ! xxxx