Am i selfish or a bad person for this?

[Killies]

Hi im 20y single mother to a 4y and i just broke up with my gf we been together for 8-9 months it was really good i felt that kind of complete feeling when i was with her but she felt i didn't put enough love or time into it but she couldn't understand that she can't have my attention 100% of the time i have a daughter that is wanting me just as much as she wanted me well basically she said to me if your not going to put your hole heart into this relationship i'm going to leave. well i got pretty angry and told her to f*ck off and get out of my house im wondering if i did the right thing i loved her very much but i felt she was making me choose between her or my daughter in any circumstances i would always choose my daughter over anyone. but it's been 4 days now and my friends have notice i have been drinking much more then what i used to like every night i'd usually have 2-3 glass's of wine but now it's turned into 1-2 bottles of wine i know it's not good im still quiet capable of looking after my daughter i still get up in the morning and do all my usual things like breakfast,work,ETC but so it won't go down hill i have chucked out all alcohol in the house i know it won't get that bad but is kind of nice not having alcohol in the house yea i know it may sound weird lol oh and a friend of mine said i looked butch i know im abit tomboyish but can someone really look butch?

I think lonlyness is geting to me T^T


Do i also look butch to you?
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[Repo-May]

Family comes first. Even if you two were married and somehow the child way both of yours, biologically, your daughter still comes first. After that is your spouse. A child is a part of you that nothing else can substitute and she has to understand that. To me it sounds like she is the selfish one.