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how to deal with boyfriend issues please help?
11-09-2012, 09:13 AM
Post: #1
how to deal with boyfriend issues please help?
yeah me and my bf we re together since 10 months and im muslim he`s hindu...so he converted into a muslim for me...One day i`ve got a fight with him..we were chatting on facebook ...then one of his cousin`s girlfriend ..asked me why were we fighting..i told her the reason ...but she did not listen to all what i`ve said and she started to call me short minded...i`ve removed her from my friend list and then she and her boyfriend are saying that im manipulating my boyfriend .WTF..they are planning to make me and my bf break up!!! i really want to kick that bitch`s ass...really first of all its none of her business..shes making as if its her problem ...what should i do?

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11-09-2012, 09:21 AM
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Seems a bit trolly to me.
I mean, 10 months and he changes his whole faith and way of life?
Alienates his parents and family?

Just for a girlfriend?
I don't know.

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11-09-2012, 09:21 AM
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Well you shouldn't be arguing on Facebook first of all, second of all you shouldn't have even said anything to her. So in the near future keep your arguments private and to yourself! Now just tell her to leave the situation alone and that it isn't her business.
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11-09-2012, 09:21 AM
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become a better & sweet person,if he is a good guy,try ur best to get him,find out what he likes & become one if its possible,dont expect men to say sorry all the time,girls should learn to say it too,guys like it.
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11-09-2012, 09:21 AM
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Assalam o Alaikum dear brother in faith and humanity,
I hope u are fine and in good healths.

Sister, it is prohibited in Islam to have boyfriends or girlfriends. Please turn to Allah in repentance and understand that if a 'guy converted to Islam for YOUR SAKE' then his fake conversion isn't good enough to Please God. He must convert to islam for sake of uplifting his way of life and being sincere to God. So that, EVEN if you leave him alone, he will not leave Islam. Sister, you should take the first step in the right direction and break all ties and relationship that might hinder your true obedience to your Creator and Benefactor i.e. Allah azzawajal and TURN to Allah swt before you RETURN to Allah swt.

I wish to share the following beneficial links in order that u may read and act according to the knowledge gained. insha'Allah

Is friendship between man and woman allowed in Islam or not - Sheikh Assim L Al Hakeem
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QxejePXT1ak

He got to know a girl through the internet and he wants to marry her but her father is refusing
http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/36618

What is Love?
http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/82941

Means of helping oneself to lower one’s gaze
http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/20229

Ruling on taking boyfriends or girlfriends
http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/1114

Friendship and love between a man and a woman
http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/20949

Forbidden love by kamal al mekki
http://www.kalamullah.com/Kamal%20El%20M...20Love.mp3

Islam and dating by AbdulMalik
http://muxlim.com/videos/She_who_lives/i...alik-p-13/

He fell in love with a girl then he repented. Can he be friends with her?
http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/33702/%D8%...8%A3%D8%A9
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