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My 'friends' are turning against me?
11-09-2012, 09:15 AM
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My 'friends' are turning against me?
There are three of us, and there was a really happy period where we were all equally close. But things went weird, and suddenly every little thing I do seems to annoy them. They also won't leave my private life alone, when it's none of their business. They purposely embarass me, and they sometimes act extremely weird. These are all in small doses, but it builds up. It started when they found out I was going out with a guy two years ago. They're quite immature, so they tease me about him a lot. They mention him almost every day, and they're convinced I like his cousin who goes to our school. Truthfully I do, but I've managed to keep it a secret for a year, and nothing has changed. I'd be in trouble if anyone found out. One of my friends also act extremely strange on and off, especially when she's with our other friend (there's a group of three of us) and blatantly talks to that friend more than me, and walks next to her more and I'm just left standing behind them. They give each other looks if I do something wrong, which in their eyes is me singing which they find extremely 'irritating' which is only until recently. One of them was throwing things at me, and they always steal my phone and once even hacked into my facebook account. They didn't do anything though. And this is all only until recently. How can I keep them of my trail with the guy I like, and are they real friends? Should I focus more on my other friends? Please help, as our once good friendship is falling apart!
We get along really well usually, and it's not all bad, but the bad is taking over.

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11-09-2012, 09:24 AM
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try to make other friends in the meantime, because if they do turn on you, you might turn into the weird kid that no one talks to if you know no one else after they leave you. focus on other friends, but don't ignore your 2 friends, treat them the same and talk to other people when you get the chance.

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11-09-2012, 09:24 AM
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They sound really annoying and not very good friends. You gotta accept that friends grow apart and you probably are more mature right now. Get new friends!

Don't just completely ditch them, but if you are not happy with these friends, there obviously is something wrong here.
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11-09-2012, 09:24 AM
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I'd say they're not true friends. because true friends don't purposely try to embarass you or try to put you on the spot. Friends dont hack into fb accounts, and you leave you out. Just ask them what's going on and if they can't give you answer you should find some new friends. Because it sounds like they're going to be your friend until they find something about you that they can tell other people and gossip about you.
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