Sticky Situation, 10 points asap (: THANKS GUYS.?

[Jazzminhh]

So, ima just make a little recaaaap (:

So met a girl over summer and got pretty school before the school year started. She told me stuff like the guy she liked (lets call him Phil). I had no clue who Phil was back then.
Turns out, this year, Phil is in one of my classes. He added me on Facebook, we started "talking". Nothing harmful, ended up adding him on Skype. Obvi that led to webcamming etc and being "online" 24/7. To sum it all up now, he's told me he likes me.. and i've indirectly told him the same.

Im comfortable with Phil like i am with myself. He knows pretty much everything about me. Phil is definitely not a player type guy (shocker huh lol) I know everything about him. & I like his company.

Anywho, I dont know what to do about this situation because Ive indirectly tried to tell my friend (lets call her Susie). Susie asked me if I wanted to date him, and I lied saying "its not even like that" and she said "then you're not at fault, its all him! If you were to date him though, now thats a different story"

.. What should I do?
Chicks over D*cks or
Go for someone you can be 100% real with?

[Love life]

tell your friend. friends tell one another things. she will be mad if she ever found out that you indirectly told him that you liked him. tell her be honest. "honesty is the best policy."

[Rachel]

your friend should want you and him to be happy, even if that means she doesn't get to be with him. it may make your friendship shaky, but she needs to realize that yours and his happiness are all that matter

[El]

You should probably talk to them both. They both deserve honesty. And if he doesn't like her back, then that's not your issue, and if you like him back, that's not her issue. You deserve to find someone you can be real with, and if a friend can't deal with that, then she's not a very good friend.

[Kristen]

Chicks always... UNLESS he asks you out first. be honest with your friend. Ease into it, by joking around and making bets on who he asks out, make a 'hypothetical pact' or something saying you will always be friends, no matter the guy in your life.
hope this helps

[Jessica]

Let me tell you about a situation just like yours that I was in.

My best friend was in love with this new kid Brandon. She lived right near him. I didn't like him or anything at the time. I went ti her house and I talked to him a bit and really decided I liked this guy.

That night he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was really excited but I knew my best friend liked him. She said to me that night "What kind of friend would I be if I didn't let you be happy with him?" To this day I appreciate her doing that, Brandon wound up being the best boyfriend I ever had.

So therefore, your friend should let you be happy with that guy, and if not, she isn't a real friend. He could wind up being the best guy you were involved with, like how it was for me.