Was it inappropriate to ask a girl like this !?
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11-09-2012, 09:19 AM
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Was it inappropriate to ask a girl like this !?
I had a colleague (one year before), whom I had interest upon and I knew she too had interest in me. But I never talked to her before, and we both exchanged a lot of pleasantries with our eyes. But then suddenly I lost my job and I never talked to her or saw her for nearly one year and then I found her on facebook and I wanted to initiate a communication with her, so I sent her a message like this:
"Hi, Can I talk with you, and I request you to keep this very personal." Actually my intentions are very good. but the response I got from her is "Hi, I dont think I know you, maybe you are contacting a wrong person" Actually I am a nerd when it comes to girls and I said to keep it personal only so that I do not get ridiculed if this breaks out, as we both have a lot of common friends on facebook So was my message inappropriate. I want to apologize to her if it was, should I do that or just forget it and everything. Any Indian girls please help ! Ads |
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11-09-2012, 09:27 AM
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you should forget it.
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11-09-2012, 09:27 AM
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It wasn't inappropriate. Just tell her that you worked with her at whereever. I'm sure she will remember you.
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11-09-2012, 09:27 AM
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She doesn't remember you. Tell her how you know her and if she still doesn't remember, move on because she isn't interested.
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11-09-2012, 09:27 AM
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dude..don't worry..you didn't do or say anything inappropriate for which you should feel disheartened..
Its just that whatever u thought didn't turn out to be quite correct after all.. Never mind..she is not the last girl in this world after all.. Next time..try a girl who works in your office and try to be friends with her..know her well personally and then make a move..I am sure you will succeed.. all the best.. |
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11-09-2012, 09:27 AM
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She might remember you or might not. Remind her about your self and see if she is interested. if not move on...................
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11-09-2012, 09:27 AM
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No need to apologize.
"never talked to her before, and we both exchanged a lot of pleasantries with our eyes" => Bullshit. what do you mean by exchange pleasantries wit eyes? What you're telepathic? "I dont think I know you" => Boom. Right on spot - She stated the FACTS. If you don't TALK, no matter how much you "exchanged a lot of pleasantries with our eyes", it doesn't matter. Learning point - open your dumb mouth and talk more importantly, COMMUNICATE with verbally. Here are THE materials that is going to help you: Read, re-read and then read again and again until it gets absorbed in your blood - #1) M0de One by Alan R0ger Currie [eBook] #2) Direct Dating Summit 2010. [video seminar] #3) Read and understand what's given in here: http://goo.gl/CFRdM More info: http://www.urlgone.com/b41930/ |
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