Do you think this is considered cheating ?

[River Chaser]

If it happened to your boyfriend, would you consider that cheating?
Would you want him to tell you?

[Been There]

It does not matter what I think is cheating. It does not matter what the next answerer thinks is cheating.
You are not in a relationship with me.
You are not in a relationship with the next answerer either.
You are in a relationship with your boyfriend.
The only thing that matters is what HE thinks is cheating.

You cannot keep a relationship if you keep secrets from your boyfriend. His best friend is not really his best friend, and perhaps your bf should know that.

However, if your bf is "every time" asking if you are cheating on him, this guy is screwed up bigtime, and the relationship isn't going to last anyway.

[kiss4u]

Never tell an never do it again. You should have got up and walked out. How would you feel if this was your boyfriend doing this instead of you. You are asking to get in trouble. Spine the bottle is for singles. When your boy friend goes out with his friends to a stripe bar and gets a lap dance it should be cool with you.

[Softtouchmale]

I don't consider it "cheating" because you didn't intend it but the other boy did.

In other words, he shouldn't have done it.

All said and done, I suppose if your boyfriend is jealous and possessive and telling him this will hurt him, then don't tell him; don't let this happen again and if his best friend does that again, then tell your boyfriend.

After all is said and done, though, in my opinion, if your boyfriend is insecure and you being kissed by someone else would drive him up the wall, you may want to seriously reconsider your relationship. Jealousy is a bad sign. It screws up relationships and gets in the way of trust and therefore love.