Should I break up with him?

[Average Girl]

This is the first boyfriend I've ever had. He's 22 and I'm 19. I don't really know where to start...
1) He's a manw****, though he hasn't been since we got together on Valentine's Day of this year (2012).
2) I believe he's slept with a ton of girls, because of the above.
3) He cheated on his ex multiple times, despite loving her. They were in a long distance relationship.
4) There was a rumor told to me by a friend of his that he was cheating on me, but it seems to be false, especially after talking to him and the girl he supposedly cheated with. The girl who told me's story didn't quite add up.
5) I saw on his Facebook messages that he actively tried to get two seperate girls to come over and have sex with him on June 19th. Neither came and I confronted him about it and eventually decided to forgive him.
6) He never invites me over to hang ou or do anything with him. I feel like I always have to invite myself over. When I ask if he wants me to stay longer or whatever, he always says, "I don't care."
7) He told me that he fell for his ex in a month and a half. He isn't in love with me, or at least he hasn't told me if he is. I'm desperately in love with him, though I haven't told him. I have implied it, though.
8) I gave him my virginity.
9) He used to keep liking and commenting on pictures of ****ty girls on Facebook (ones that he was friends with) until I asked him to stop after the cheating rumor. He did until two days ago, and now he's starting to again.
10) He completely ignores me on Facebook. Doesn't like or comment on any of my pictures or links or statuses, though he does for everyone else. If I post on his wall, the most I get is a like. He never posts on mine or mentions me in his status, though I've been sitting right next to him before and he tagged everyone else but me. He doesn't like or comment on pictures of us unless there's another person in the photo. He doesn't post or even take pictures of us. He has an album dedicated to a trip with his ex, however, and two more where she is prominently featured. All of the descriptions of he photos are things like, "My beautiful girlfriend looking like a model." He is no longer friends with his ex on Facebook, but there are comments on all her phtotos from saying how beautiful she is and such, but if you look through mine, the only comments from him are from when he was first trying to get with me. I posted an album two days ago just like one his ex had, just to see if he would react, but he didn't do or say anything.
11) If I don't try to text or call him, I won't hear from him for a day or two, and even then he doesn't really say anything.
12) He's extremely sweet and cuddly when we're actually together. Holds me and kisses me and such.
13) Has changed a lot since we dated, in that he's become way less of a flirtatious *******.
14) Only has me listed as his girlfriend on Facebook because I forced him to after the messaging incident.
15) Gladly spends money on me.
16) Tells me that I'm an amazing girlfriend and that he really cares about me and that he loves taking care of me.
17) Says a lot of thoughtless things. For example, at the beginning of our relationship, he showed me a Facebook profile of some model he's friends with where she's posing suggestively in a bikini on the beach, smirks at me, and says, "I dated her." He also showed me the Facebook profile of another girl he's friends with and said, "This is the most beautiful girl I have ever seen."
I don't know what to do. I love him so much, but him not loving me really hurts. The fact that he fell in love with his ex so fast makes it hurt even more. Should I dump him? I feel kind of disrespected. It's killing me to be in love with him. ....What do I do?
(Sorry about any spelling/grammar errors.)
I am the one who tries to intiate sex usually, and he usually says no. That has been wearing down on me as well.

[Chloe]

first of all think of all the good times you have had and talk to him about how you feel

[Thibault]

Yeah break up with him. Don't feel bad about a douche like that. Or if you really like him, go into an open relationship.

[Apocalypse Dude!!!]

LOL, longest post ever.

P.S. thanks for the 2pts sucka!!!! xP

[Bri-Anna]

Break up with him. If he's not respecting you, then he obviously has a lot of growing up to do.

[Matt]

He was your first boyfriend and I think he will be your first ex. Relationships involve two people not one and a half.

[Esther]

Girl, please run for your life!

He is not serious. I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this but I had to find out myself the hard way! What you don't know is that there are guys out there who will love to take care of you, be there for you and will NEVER cheat on you!
Show him you're better, break up with him and don't look around. Don't make mistakes like: calling him again, putting on facebook how sad you are, etc.
If you can show him you're strong, he will eventually respect you. I was in the exact situation as you were now, and guess what? He came back to me six months later, and I said no!

I have met a caring boyfriend whom I've been with for 3 years now!

Good luck!

[Lightning Farron]

Can't say I had a similar situation, since my ex wasn't as much as a tool your bf is. So here's my thoughts
1) If he's ignoring you in FB, that should alert a Red Flag
2) If he's showing you pictures of his ex's, happy and what not, RED flag
3) If he's liking girls who are flashing their "goodies" on his feeds, RED Flag
4) Still has an Album of his ex on his FB, RED Flag
5) Merely buys you things, just to get inside your pants and to shut you up, RED flag
6) Doesn't text you for "x" amount of days, unless you text him first, RED Flag

He's not worth your time. I had an ex bf who wanted to buy me anything whenever he visited me. I had always said no, and even went off and stopping him to buying something, even if it was $5 or less. It wasn't until I noticed the whole, "if I don't text ___ I won't hear from ___ for days or weeks" I noticed all the "you want me to buy you this?" "Want me to buy you that?" crap was nothing more but a thing for him to get inside my pants, and claim his prize. Luckily, nothing much happened in the relationship, and the dude never got his "cookie" from me.

In your case, this guy is just a tool. Now that he's taken your V-Card, he doesn't care. I suggest leaving him before you find out some dirty info on him, ex: cheating, etc. Just because he pulls off the "oh I love you baby" crap, doesn't mean he always means it, considering his past and his actions while the both of you were dating. But hey, do whatever you wanna do. Just thought I'd give a slight similar situation I've experienced. You don't deserve this nonsense, and he, as a good for nothing tool, doesn't deserve you either.

Best of Luck OP

Edit: OP, I wouldn't doubt you're the one downgrading everyone's post. Only reason it makes me assume it was you was as soon as My last comment was posted, you suddenly edited your post saying you're the one trying to initiate sex with the loser. If you wish to be abused in this messed up relationship, go right ahead. Just know that if it was in fact you, down voting everyone's post who was all for, you "dumping the man wh*re", you have some growing up to do. You came on the internet for advice, we, the people gave it to you, only to be spit upon by the person who we feel sorry for.