Does he like me or ...?

[L]

So there's this guy (I'm gonna call him J) that I know because he's a cousin of one of my coworkers/friends. I met J when I went over to my friend's house and I saw him again at two different parties a few weeks apart (my friend's family's party and then I was invited to J's party). We play Xbox together sometimes but we're always with a bunch of other people. In person he'll talk to me but he's really quiet which is exactly opposite of how he is online. We're also facebook friends. What's weird is that he has 1000+ "friends" on his account but even so he almost always likes or comments on my status even if it's completely stupid. But he doesn't comment a ton on anyone else's status unless they're family.

The reason I even notice is because I like him. My coworker/friend told me one time "I think J likes you " so idk if I should believe them or not or whatever. But I don't want to ask or anything, mostly cuz i don't want it to be weird. And because he just moved far away (but he might be back depending on how things work out) and I'm just not really sure about anything.

Yeah I know this probably sounds stupid but any thoughts would be appreciated, thanks.

[cooingdad945]

It's possible that he likes you, as he talks to you online and likes/ comments on your statuses a lot. He may feel better talking to you online as you guys aren't face to face so he has more time to think about what he's gonna say next that won't make him look stupid, so he may be quieter in real life as he's afraid of making a mistake. You're right, I don't think you should just ask him straight 'do you like me?' as this may make him panic and nervous, but just see how everything goes and see if he makes any hints xx

[Jennifer V]

First off, yes this guy likes you. Second, he's far away so wait and see if he comes back. don't start anything while he's gone, it will cause issues. Keep facebooking and gaming together so you can learn what common interests you have and become friends. that is key. keep in mind you have to be best friends with someone you're in a relationship with because when your kids are all grown up and you're still married...you have 40+ years to hang out together so you better like each other.