What are the chances my husband will cheat again?

[Soph]

And how can I stop being so worried he will? He cheated on me at the very beginning of our relationship, but I'm not sure to what extent it's considered cheating.

We were in a long-distance relationship at the time, and I'd actually only been out with him 4 or 5 times during 2 separate weeks I was on holiday. I hadn't seen him for a few months but we were talking over skype or phone every single day for hours, and chatting over facebook. We were in close contact every single day. The only thing was, he was more into the relationship at the time then me. I'm quite a lot younger then him, and I wasn't sure I was ready to commit to a real relationship yet, particularly one that was long-distance. I even suggested having an open relationship a couple of months before he cheated on me, but he said he didn't want it and so we made it an official relationship.
I was in New York and was on a course where I had an amazing time and I was really busy, so I kept blowing him off a lot of the time because I had other things to do, so I didn't show I was THAT interested, though I did really like him a lot and I still felt at the stage where I couldn't see someone else anymore. I even said to him at one point when he complained I didn't talk enough to him, "Look, I didn't come to New York to talk to someone in Greece." i feel bad about it now....But he told me a few months later that while i'd been in New York, he'd slept with another girl, it was just once with a friend of his friend's who was in town for a couple days. He couldn't hide it anymore from me and he wanted us to start a new page and be open and honest with each other. I forgave him.

Now about a year and a half later, we are married quite happily. But I still have fears he'll cheat on me again. I hate it because deep down, I guess i don't think he will, I trust him mostly. But there's always this little voice in my head telling me he might in the future. He even fits the perfect profile of a cheater- handsome, lot of female attention, extrovert, charming, his dad is a cheater, no college education, very masculine (lots of testosterone), lives in a city.

The thing is, he's also very sensitive and caring, he cries sometimes over emotional things, he's very sweet, he can be a little shy in some circumstances, he's not afraid to tell me he's scared of the dark (not like a little kid, but he hates complete darkness and not being able to see anything), he hates horror movies or really violent things, he loves animals, and more importantly- he seems REALLY crazy about me. And I do genuinely believe he is. I believe he loves me a lot and I can see that from his actions. He's so affectionate all the time, my parents say that he can't keep his hands off me. Everyone around me tells me he's crazy about me. I guess because of the circumstances we were in before, I don't think it can properly be considered cheating, although it was cheating. I don't really have any reason to believe he would cheat on me now except for the fact that he "technically" cheated on me before and he matches the right profile of a cheater, according to research.... Are my worries justified and if not how can I cope with these feelings? It's making me feel low and often I'm being too paranoid about him. I don't want to be like that because I know that can ruin a relationship too. Someone please help me.

[squarekiss125]

Changes are high

[P]

100% Move on to a man who treats you right, or live the rest of your life being treated like a piece of shit.

[Sugar.Plum]

A cheater is always a cheater, will never change

[ymer3ii]

most our worrier from things not happened . as long as he with you now and treat you good. do not think too much......once he do it gain then you act ...... you do not need to feel bad about it.

[Rosen]

If you really love him, then change his nature by feeling his life full of your love. Every relation is build only one thing is trust.

[greatscene775]

Check his phone and his emails. Its that simple - and see!