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I can't stop thinking of a girl.?
11-09-2012, 09:32 AM
Post: #1
I can't stop thinking of a girl.?
I met a girl in September, it was about 2 weeks after the beginning of 9th grade. I just saw her talking to some guy and I kept looking at her, I've never felt this way until then. The next day I talked to her and asked her what her name was. I found out she likes to draw, a lot and shes good at it to. She said the characters she draws are mentally cracked (mentally retarded I guess). I didn't have much experience with talking to girls. I sat next to her in class everyday and I was always thinking about what to say next. Sometimes I would sit there the entire class wanting to say something and when I did it was something stupid. I thought maybe she didn't like me. I thought I saw her at lunch once and, turns out it wasn't her. I saw some goth kids and well, I thought one of them was her so I suddenly thought we can never be friends. I asked her where she usually was during lunch and she said outside of class. I was really nervous but I went there the day after. She was there and asked if I wanted to walk around and we did. I didn't know what to say but she talked more so I think it was okay. Suddenly I had a reason to go to school, I really was only happy when I was with her. She was only with me at lunch because her parents made her go to this school, her friends were at a different one. I was with her at lunch everyday for almost 3 weeks. I messaged her almost everyday on Facebook and when she didn't reply I felt terrible, I know its stupid. Than one day all of sudden she was absent, I thought it was because she must have been sick or something. The next day I went to where I usually found her at lunch and I saw her walking to class but with no backpack or anything. I said "You weren't here yesterday?". She said she wastransferringg schools, and I guess i just looked disappointed or something. Anyway I'm getting to the point, the next few weeks I messaged her on facebook, a lot even when didn't reply. I see pictures of her with her friends and I feel so stupid, why would she want to be my friend if she has her own. I'm not very social, I don't make many friends. She has very close friends and friends she can trust. When will I let go of this. She gave me her number on facebook, when i asked for it. She still gave me a chance even after me being such a creep. She told me to text her, so I did. I'm afraid to ask her if I could call her because I don't want to get in her way of being with her friends or something. I sound desperate don't I Tongue

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11-09-2012, 09:40 AM
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Ask her out on a date and tell her you like her alot and contune asking her out until u tell her you want her to be your girlfriend.

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11-09-2012, 09:40 AM
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its totally normal man... i have a girl on my mind 24-7 and i also feel terrible when they dont reply. but theres only one thing you can do. you have to tell her you like her. By doing this you might have a chance with her because its completely evident that you really like her. if i doesnt work out then thats just makes it easier to forget her but if it does work out then youll be the one lucky guy! Smile and maybe give her some space like dont message her eveyday... but build up to it too dont just ask outta the blue.. Just do it man! you got nothing to loose Smile Good luck Big Grin
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